It happens that people sometimes become angry while they have a heated exchange of words. As a result of the altercation one might use abusive language. Satan tempts the other party to reciprocate in the same language and tenor. But if he is a man of Taqwa, he immediately controls himself by Remembering Allah. His mind suggests to him that if he behaved the same way as the opponent had behaved, then what would be the difference between the two. The opponent had used uncouth language and had followed the dictates of Satan. If you do likewise, you too will render yourself the follower of Satan. With the beneficence of Dikr of Allah his conscience will guide him to give a befitting reply to the opponent --- "Wa iza khatib hum al johala qaalu salama---when the ignorant speak with them in a foul manner, they reply to them gently and with equanimity." It is better If, because of the Dikr of Allah, the person is able to dispel the fear and confusion from his mind. Otherwise, the dispute can become a haranguing contest, each flinging foul-words on the other and might even result in physical assault. If, at the rudimentary stage of the dispute, effort was made to cool down the other party, the matter could have been sorted out without much ado!

Now we can see at length how people get entangled in the web of Satan. Even those who call themselves men of taqwa are not immune from this. If they don't busy themselves in Tadakkar, they most likely would fall in the trap sometime or other.

Presence of a moralizer and preacher is absolutely necessary for the heart of every person to keep him warned not to become a victim of false pride and abstain from childish actions. Remember! A real man is one who always keeps the end in view. For example, when one keeps his cool during a heated argument with another person, the matter can be sorted out amicably. If this amicable nature is not there, how many persons would suffer tremendous losses fighting over trivial things with a sense of false pride. In such disputes Satan plays a very crucial role to create rifts and commission of sins by the litigants.

It is necessary for every momin to keep the intercession of Tadakkar in his daily life. In the past there were such momins who dug their own graves during their life times and used to recite the Holy Quran sitting inside these trenches. They did this to remind themselves of the Hereafter and the interior of the graves was illuminated with the felicity of Tadakkar.