times to the men
that she wished to visit her, even though they were
full-grown adults, so that thereby they could be considered
as religiously legitimate intimates and be allowed
to enter house without any inconvenience.
But the other wives of the Prophet abstained from
this action and did not allow an adult man to visit
them by means of sucking their sister's milk, and
treat them like an intimate relation. They regarded
sucking as something solely related to babyhood. They
said to 'A'ishah: "We do not know. Maybe the
verdict of the Prophet has been given only in the
case of Salem, the slave-girl of Abu_Hudhayfah and
his adopted son, and it is not applicable to others."(308)
This incident has been narrated in Sahih of Muslim
within six traditions, the last of which in his own
words is as follows:
They said to 'A'ishah: "By God! We consider the
matter of Salim as a leave given by the Prophet to
him only. Therefore we cannot in that way allow anyone
to become intimately related to us. (309)
Salim ibn 'Abd Allah ibn 'Umar
was one of those who, in adulthood, was allowed by
means of suckling to visit 'A'ishah. The author of
Tabaqat writes: 'A'ishah sent Salem to her sister
Umm Kulthum, wife of 'Abd Allah ibn Rabi' ah to be
given suck, so that he would legitimately be allowed
to visit her and listen to some tradition.(310)
The next tradition, which is narrated by Muslim in
his Sahih, confirms the opinion of Umm Salamah and
other wives of the Prophet in the question of suckling.
'A'ishah says: One say the Prophet came in and saw
a man sitting before me. He was annoyed and I could
observe signs of anger on his face. I told him that
the man was my foster brother. He made a remark (311)
which is explained as follow by an-Nawawi, a famous
interpreter of tradition in Sahih of Muslim:
It means: You must reflect to see whether this sucking
has been effected in accordance with the required
condition and laws of Islam or not. For, sucking is
due to hunger, and the legitimacy of the glance is
due to the face that the child is so young that his
hunger is satisfied through sucking without needing
any other food, whereas in the case of grown-ups milk
alone would not serve as an adequate food, and they
required