| in the Unseen that Unseen which basically includes
Allah, Angels, Jinnat (Spirits) and Shaitaan CSatan). No Wonder that the fundamental
teaching in Islam is "AI- Imaan bil Ghaib" that is, "the Belief
in the Unseen".CVerse 2:3). Therefore, the human nature makes a wood-cutter
instinctively cry out when his axe accidentally falls sharply on his foot, though
he is all alone in the forest. The instinct in its reflex response makes him,
the created, to cry out to his Creator, the Unseen. Fear -Mental Normalcy.
The subject of "Al-ghaib" reveals one thoughtful aspect for
discussion here. Fear! It is part of the instinct for self-preservation or survival.
It is not something that a child can be made ashamed of. In fact, manifestation
of fear is a welcome sign of a mental normalcy in him. The parents should
instead keep the mind of the child at rest by making a joke of their own past
embarrassment Over false fears or by cracking a few jokes on themselves on the
subject. To ask the child to banish fear is like asking him to banish his
human instinct. Remember the wood-cutter? Was his piercing cry of moan in the
lonely forest a waste? No! It immediately comforted him in his pain. The instinct
of Seeking out the Unseen with a cry of moan comes as an immediate relief to all
of us. But we do not pause to ponder. It is said that fear as part of the
human instinct begins even before a baby is born. Some pregnant mothers are reported
to have noticed that a sudden loud noise or a. sudden let go heavily onto the
couch produced distinct signs of disturbance in the baby in the womb akin to the
Signs of fear. Fear in Children. Let us conclude the discussion
by the comments on the following quotation from a good authority on the natural
aspect of fear in the children: "Another characteristic of the
child's personality is the presence of many fears. These fears result from uncertainty
combined with easy recourse to imagination. The imagination runs toward superlatives
and when a child indulges in fantasy, things are either very attractive or very
threatening." We can ascribe a reason for this in the context
of Islam; Imagination by the child or his fantasy is a phase of manifestation
of his attempt at perceiving things which are
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