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child is seen old enough to be taken for the first time to a mosque. He has some
knowledge of tahaarat (cleanliness) and ehteraam (respect) for the mosque. Incidentally,
that is also the age when the child can be allowed the benefit of his "first
impression to be his lasting one" with regard to his first experiences that
he comes across in his life and the values attached to them. Parents
need to believe and make the child also believe that his first participation in
a congregational prayer is a momentous occasion for him and for the family, which
indeed is, if only they knew! The first impact and impression
of the child regarding the occasion will leave lasting imprints in his memory.
A person belongs to where his memories are. Some child- hood memories always survive
sharply to create the desire to relive the occasions. And he later in his adult
life relives the occasion like this sub-consciously by maintaining regularity
in the attendance of daily prayers. Planning & Preparation
But this has to be preceded by an enthusiastic planning and ostentatious
preparation for the child to notice. So the child's inquisitive nature makes him
attentive to the talk going on around him about certain prior arrangements and
time-schedules, and he knows in his own small way that there is in the air an
important occasion out. His
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