| in his twenties and his own father was
the head of the family. His narration to the end was graphic and vivid and his
face-expression lively as if there was a re-enactment of " the event before
his eyes. Then strangely, after remaining quiet and thoughtful for sometime, the
aged person rose from his seat, stood still thoughtful, and then slowly walked
away to retire in his room. It should be easy to guess why the old man
suddenly fell into a deep thought with all r the visible sign of desolation and
melancholy. He felt that the event had taken place " only "yesterday",
and there he was an old person "today" and the relatives will argue
at the cemetery "tomorrow" whether that old weather-beaten grave was
indeed his! The span of some sixty years since the event was now a mere 24 hours
to him! And that is precisely what the Holy Qur'an wants us to remember. "He
will say: How many years did you tarry in the earth? They will say: We tarried
a day or part of a day, but ask those who keep account. He will say: You did tarry
but a little -had you but known (it)" (23 : 112,113,114). Now this is the
celestial (heavenly) clock, Time will tell. Introduce the child to the
earthly time-clock in time so that he later as an adult becomes aware of the celestial
clock also in time and is not caught by a rude shock like the old man. What a
great pity when there are people in the society who were raised and conditioned
to be oblivious to the dictates of both the clocks! Sense and Value
of Time Observe our children. They think of a number of things to do in
a day, more on a holiday, but when asked, they will be seen having no idea at
all of the respective time normally necessary for each of them. The things are
just too many for a day even if sleep is skipped! It means that the parents have
not yet introduced them to the clock. Children must grow up as adults with a smart
sense and value of time. If the child says that he was going to a certain
shop to buy a book, ask him as if for a mere interest to know, how long that will
take him until he returns home. He will begin to think, estimate -perhaps wrongly
-and then reply. That is a good start if such casual inquiries are made as a normal
practice. When the child mentions a duration of time for a particular job
or assignment, challenge him that it will take him longer, to make him conscious
of the time. He will try to accomplish it much sooner with an eye on the clock
not only to meet the challenge r but also to impress. If the child invites
friends at home for a small afternoon party, ask him when will it be over and
then teasingly question: why so late, not because it matters whether late or not.
He will immediately direct his mind to the time-management to explain and justify
why so late, though to te parents it may not be late. All these are a part of
the exercise and practice of time-orientation |