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-belief in the Unseen) and this nagging belief is general for the mankind. The
human mind cannot remain blank or shed this belief. He has either to run the path
to polishing the belief or run the risk of polluting it. There is no third option.
In the case of a child, therefore, under the inspiration of this inborn
belief, he senses a thirst for information in order to polish the belief. In the
absence of adequate and balanced information, his imaginative mind tries to fill
in the gaps and comes up with an incorrect interim concept of his Creator Who
he finds often mentioned as Allah in the family. This mis-concept is common with
small children. Therefore, it is an Islamic obligation of the parents to
ensure that as the child grows up, his thirst, which often goes unknown to them,
is quenched amply with a flow of pure and proper information. The risk of the
child drawing information from other doubtful Sources, as an alternative, becomes
diminished. He is spared from his belief being tampered with doubts later in his
adult life. Religious Duty. The parents therefore have a religious
duty to ensure that the child is purposefully engaged in the proper learning of
correct and balanced concept of Allah as early ''as possible" essentially
based on His attributes. The perfect concept of His being and existence is however,
beyond human comprehension. The initial childhood picture of Allah as a being
with a human physique, image, emotions, needs or limitations must not stay on
longer. And this is only possible when the entire package of His attributes,
including those of His benevolence, compassion, forgiveness, generosity and such
others are addressed. There therefore develops a balanced concept of Him as the
loving and lovable Being, and yet also a reasonably feared One if disobeyed or
angered -all in the context of tauhid (absolute onennes). Common God
is not Allah. What is even more important is to impress upon the child
that there exists only Allah and there is no god besides Him and that the mention
by others, of god or God, who lacks all the combined attributes of Allah is not
Allah. And no god other than Allah exists. Therefore, the universally common God
worshiped by all others does not exist if he is not Allah. While it
is true that great "thawab" is earned by those parents who are the first
to teach their children to recite or read the verse: Bi'simi Laahi Rahman Raheem",
its importance is not confined to teaching the recitation of the verse or its
translation only. The importance essentially lies also in helping the children
to form a correct and balanced Islamic concept of "Allah" mentioned
in the verse.
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