| has the right to be informed of such history of
the family by the parents so that he later in life as a responsible adult is able
to draw lessons from it and formulate his vision aright. There may have
occurred partnership disputes, business split, divorce cases, inheritance disputes,
losses from business speculation and such other situations in the past in the
family through perhaps negative emotions or miscalculated reasoning or misplaced
trust with some disastrous consequences. Family history, if known, can help the
succeeding generations avoid a repetition of the occurrences or exercise caution
to avert such potential situations. But before a child is old enough for
information about the family-history, he has yet a prior right, equally important,
-a right to that best and pertinent piece of education which originates only in
his home and can avail to him in his young age only by the parents. That piece
is about the reality of this transient life, the life of a constant struggle,
exacting mental, physical and emotional toll, until there comes the inevitable
exit in the form of death. He may not know that the struggle begins right from
birth. He too cried as he struggled for first few initial breath, which is normal
for all babies when they are born. Importance In Timing. The
importance lies in timing the imparting of that piece of education for good effect.
The time is when the child is getting inquisitive about the reasons for the quarrels
and disputes which he hears about or witnesses as each occurs among the adults.
The reasons are mostly connected with the struggle as part of this mortal life
attendant with human weaknesses. He cannot. be explained reasons without allowing
him the perception of the constant struggle in the life of every mortal, whatever
his station of life, and which is attached to every family. To preserve health
is also an ongoing struggle until there is a succumb to natural death. The
child has to be impressed that there is always a twist and turn in the struggle;
and ups and downs in the history of every family and that the family in which
he is born is no exception. Examples of the struggle are given to the child in
the form of piece-meals narration of the family-history as and when appropriate
occasions arise as he keeps growing up. Then the child, on his .part as
an adult later would, for the information of his children, add the narration of
his own life-history of strife and successes as a continuous process of passing
on the family history to the succeeding generations. The grasping power
of a grown-up child with regard to the family history and the les- sons intended
for him in the narration should not be under-estimated. |