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be fun for him to accompany the child next door, already a student and a friend,
to the school. Magic Wand. Now, a few prior and simple lessons
at home before enrolment, and a continuation of some more "prior" lessons
after the enrolment, was the magic wand that created a spring-board for the child,
and there was no looking back after that. Once a liking for the school is triggered
it produces good results in the studies; and then one sustains the other in a
healthy cycle throughout the schooling life leading, for many, to a university
graduation. The key is to appreciate the child's natural sense of a positive
competition and rivalry among the children in the class, progressing in stages
each giving way to the next as follows: Stage One: On the day of enrolment
and also for a day or two thereafter, the child brings to the school his toy,
the one he likes best, thinking his is the only one that exists, often without
the knowledge of his parents. He proudly reveals its presence to some of the classmates
many of whom do almost the same with regard to theirs, in competition. This stage
passes to usher stage two: Stage Two: Toys lose their relevance when the
child finds older students come to the school with books and pens. He now brings
to the school books and pencils alright but with flashy and colourful in appearance
for a show off in competition with those brought by other children. Alphabets
And Figures. Stage Three: Subsequently the lessons start in earnest beginning
with paintings of pictures and writings of alphabets and figures. Now the competition
spills over into what is written (or scribbled) in the exercise books and painted
(or soiled) in the drawing books by the students. Here the child who had the advantage
of prior les- sons at home is surprised and impressed to find that he knows to
do his work in the class quicker and better than other students. He attributes
his competing ability as independently his own, which presumption is healthy as
it sharpens his sense of com- petition. This is the spring-board which has
its effect and relevance, only if created, before the child begins his schooling
life. This spring-board is simple to create for each and every child in the family
so that the child reports at the school equipped with it to commence his schooling
life. It has been done successfully by others whose children have been obtaining
top ranks successively in every grade. There have to be initiatives and
personal pain on the part of the parents for sowing
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