Chapters

Teach the Child to Think

Treat the Child as an Adult

Allow the Child to Speak

 

"Touch & Tie" the Child

 

Let the Child be a Child

 

Spare the Child from Inferiority Complex (Three Parts)

 

Instruct the Child Once Only

 

The Child's First Participation in a Religious Congregation

 

Introduce the Child to the Clock

 

The Child with Culture of Reading is More Visionary

 

The Child and his Concept of Allah swt

  The Culture of Talking to Allah swt
  The Child Let Sulking Ceases Sulking
  Gaining Vision from Family History
  School Enrollment with a Spring-board
  Mother's True Love for Son is Sharing his with his Wife.
  Smart Shoes and the Child
  Childhood Trauma
  Slip of Expletives in Conversation-As a Habit
  Foster Charitable Nature in the Child
  Childhood Nickname can Stunt Personality
  Disciplinarian Parents on the Wrong Footing
  Favouring Boys is Wronging Girls among Children
  Groom the Child in the Art of Conversation
  The Child and his World of Fantasy
  The Child's "Book & Buddies"
  Allow the Child his Moments of Privacy
  Save the Child from Risk of School Antipathy
  Make the Child Understand Prejudice
  Handle the Child's Fragile Trust with Care
    

 

Child Psychology

Groom the Child in the At of Conversation - 24

A : "Why didn't you turn up"? B : "What makes you think so"?
A : "What time were you there"? B : "What time did we agree on"?
A : "Wasn't it 9.00"? B : "Hadn't you said that would be late"?
A : "So what time did you come"? B : "Precisely 8.00 as agreed"

At last the chain of questions countered by questions is broken and the simple information sought became eventually availed. This is an example of questions being denied information by counter-questions. It is an ugly habit, which is not only annoying and time-wasting but also ill-mannered.

Some children are normally found with this habit. Sadly, many of them grow up hardening the habit. They cannot be said to have cultivated 8" congenial disposition. They fail to retain friends. What is worse, the marriage is put at risks if one of the spouses has the habit of responding to questions with questions.

A wife cautiously asked the husband after a few days of the marriage: "Why do you have the habit of avoiding answering a question by a counter question"? His reply was: "Who says this"?

Ugly Habit
The purpose of conversation is communication, which mainly includes exchanging or

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