| An Indian mother sits on the floor with her legs
stretched close together. She lays her baby on her lap with its head resting on
her knees. And the exercise or "ritual" of massaging and caressing of
the entire body of the baby begins with a liberal use of oil, abundant manifestation
of affection and derivation of pleasure; and this goes on and on. She never seems
to tire while the oil lasts -though no spot has been missed. The baby responds
to the caressing and cooing by the mother - by purring like a kit- ten who has
its neck tickled. This is a common scene in homes in India and Pakistan;
and was so in East Africa too. Whether the traditional massage with "religious
regularity" during the infancy is a culture or a healthcare or both, the
distinct significance and effect of the mother's touch and caress on the baby
cannot be under-estimated. I would call the culture "Touch & -
Tie" for it is believed to have the effect of tying the baby subconsciously
in devotion and loyalty towards the mother and the family for ) manifestation
prominently later in his adult life. Touch & Caress. It should
not be viewed as surprising if some of the small children in an orphanage are
on occasions seen leaving their separate beds at night to join others asleep in
their separate beds. The touch of legs or hands provides the satisfaction of human-
warmth and a sense of security when the touch and caress from their mothers are
missing. |