| Later the teacher informed the headmaster
that he was not surprised that the pupil had defied the instruction to return
to his lessons because he was already proving himself a cause of indiscipline
in the class. He recommended punishment and perhaps a note also to his parents.
He was punished. The pupil though already hurt, was relieved
of the apprehension about an additional punishment at home when it appeared certain
to him later that no communication was however sent to his parents by the school.
Antipathy. The pupil feigned (pretended) severe
headache and absented himself in the school to avoid the following period of the
geography teacher. It was obvious that he was developing antipathy (a bitter dislike)
towards the school as his only alternative to his emotional reaction to the injustice
and humiliation meted out to him. Incidents of open injustice
and humiliation are normally wrongly supposed to be accepted as a fair-play and
a normal part of the school-experience by the victims according to the parents'
antiquated adage that: 'the teacher is always right'. It falls upon the victims
however to suffer silently the agony of the memory of the humiliation for long
periods of time while hoping that the news of the incidents do not reach the ears
of their parents. Their avenues for a redress do not exist. There
happens to be also other avenues of injustice which are not uncommon in the school.
Boys are subject to intimidation or punishment at the hands of "some"
teachers when boys cannot help themselves being boys. Boys tend to be lively.
and some even more than others, and this is often misinterpreted naively as misbehaviour.
Highly Spirited A teacher need hardly take it serious
if, as an example, a pupil having raised his hand high chooses to wave it in the
air vigorously to seek preference for answering a question that was directed to
the class. To keep ignoring him purposely for being highly spirited is to be unkind.
to warn him is to question his healthy sense of rivarly. A tactful response to
put an immediate stop to this, if need be, is to announce: "Those
who are not sure of the answer can still raise their hands but wave them in the
air; however, preference will be given to chose who think that they know the answer". And
there was this pupil who was chided and then mentioned in the assembly hall by
the headmaster. His serious misconduct was to be imaginative and venture into
some exercise of creativity. Toying with a pen, he drew spectacles across the
face of a teacher peering from his picture. The pupil had made a use of his own
copy of the monthly school magazine for the exercise and for his own personal
satisfaction of the moment. He might as well added too to give the face a distinguished. |