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Mahr
(dowry) for second wife QUESTION: Salaam
Alaikum.. My husband is to marry a second wife and I
have no ill-feelings whatsoever with this. The question is in regard to the
dowry....We have been married for less than a year and my dowry was $5000 dollars,
but now less than a year has passed an her dowry has escalated to something close
to $20,000. Does this great difference come under the criteria of equality? Thank
you and jazakum allah kheiran for your reply.. ANSWER: The
basis of Mahr is mutual agreement - therefore it does not reflect any inequality
if it differs from the previous or other contemporary Mahr. Asgharali
M.M. Jaffer |  |
Making
a living from Mut'a Marriage Question: Is
it haram for a woman to make a living at mutah by marrying a man for a short
period, receiving a mahr, then observing iddah and marrying another man for
a short period and so on so that she is married to say half a dozen men in
the year? If it is haram what makes it haram if she is observing the rules
for mutah properly? And if it is not haram, does she deserve to be condemned
as immoral (or do the men who marry her deserve that)? Answer: It
is not haram for her to make a living in this way if she follows the rules
of Sharia properly. Nor does she deserve to be condemned. This also applies
to the men who marry her. Wasalaam |
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Male
Gynecologists? QUESTION #1: I
would appreciate if you could answer this mas'ala for me as per Ayatullah
Khamenei ruling from Alim Network. Q. Can
Muslim women go to male gynecologists ? Over here
in States most of the gynecologists are male and sometimes it becomes very
difficult to find a good doctor close to home. In States I have seen many Muslim
ladies going to male doctors who deliver their babies. ANSWER: Although
I don't have the specific Fatwa of Agha Khamanie, the general rule is that
a person is required to see a doctor of the same sex when touching and examination
of the private parts are involved. Exceptions can be made when there is an
emergency or a lack of availability of a doctor of the same sex. Also, when
there is a question of competence, a person can opt for a more qualified doctor
of the opposite sex if the issue of competence is vital to one's health. QUESTION
#2: Q. Can
Muslim women go to male gynecologists in life threatening situations? ANSWER: Yes. Was-Salaam, Ali
Rasheed |  |
Marijuana
- Its medicinal use? QUESTION: Assalaamu
'Alaykum, Marijuana greatly helps people dying of cancer,and
is sometimes prescribed by physicians. If Marijuana is used for these kind
of medical purposes is it Haraam? Thank You ANSWER: Wa-alaikum
as-salam, 1. If it is scientifically (by real scientists)
proven that Marijuana is truly useful for medical purposes, & 2.
If is prescribed by a trustworthy expert in the fields of the actual disease
and Marijuana (not as a user but as a scientist) & 3. There is not
an equal or better alternative, Then it is permitted
to use it only for medical purposes & only for the actual disease that
it treats. Allah knows best. Odeh
A. Muhawesh |  |
Marja
- Vilayate Faqih Question: What
is the difference between vilayat-e-faqih and marja-e-fatwa ? Answer: Wilayat
al-faqih refers to the all-comprehensive authority of the jurist (faqih) in
the absence of the twelfth Imam (A.S.). In particular, the question arises
as to the extent of the authority of the faqih during the ghayba - can he undertake
all the functions that a Ma'sum Imam undertakes? Thus wilaya al-faqih may include
functions like wilaya al-nizam (the authority to manage public order); wilaya
al-qada' ( the authority to administer justice) which includes the authority
to implement the hudud (punishments for acts violating the public order), wilaya
al-siyasa - the authority to administer a government and hold political office
and also wilaya al-tasarruf (authority for the jurist to act in a way which
he judges to be the best in the interest of the community). A corrollary to
the wilaya al-faqih may include the duty to declare a jihad. It is to be noted
that not all mujtahids accept the concept of the all-embracing and comprehensive
view of wilaya al-faqih. Marja' al-taqlid refers to
the role of a mujtahid who is competent to derive juridical rulings from the
Qur'an and hadith literature and is able to arrive at solutions which are not
explicitly stated in the sources by having recourse to the principles as stated
in usul al-fiqh. Such a mujtahid is qualified to issue juridical verdics (or
fatawa) and is a source of reference for muqallidin who follow him by doing
his taqlid (which literally means to imitate his acts). Thus it is possible
for a person to be a marja al-taqlid without occupying the position of wilaya
al-faqih. Wa ma tawfiqi illah bi'l llah Liyakatali |
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Marja
e Taqlid
Assalam alaykum I'm
interested to know more about Shia. I had been Sunni for more than 30 years. My
questions are : 1. How many marja' taqlid exist today
? 2. How can I choose one of them ? 3. I can't speak Arabic or Persian,
is there any Islamic Law book written by the marja' taqlid, so I can do taqlid
to one of them ? and how can I get that book ? Thank
you very much for your answer Salaamun 'Alaykum; There
are many maraji taqlid today. Amongst the most famous ones are Ayatullah Seestani,
Ayatullah Ruhani, Ayatullah Lankarani and Ayatullah Khamenei. You
should choose to follow the one who is the most learned (a'lam) of them. One
who is an expert in the field can decide on his own as to who to follow. Alternatively,
one can follow the opinions of the specialists in the field (ahl al-khibra)
in deciding which Ayatullah to follow. Many Ayatullahs
who have passed away in the past decade had their works translated to English.
Of the present ones, I am only aware of Ayatullah Seestani's risala being translated.
Depending on where you live, it can be obtained fairly easily. You may obtain
it from the World Federation (0181-954-9881) (if you are living in England)
or from Mihrab publishers (905-731-6920) if you are living in USA or Canada. May
Allah bless and guide you. Your brother in Islam Liyakatali |
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Marjaiyyat Question:
Who
do you think is the suitable marja' at this time? Please
give reasons. On a recent trip to Iran, I got the impression
that Seyyid Muhammad Ruhani, who incidentally is under house arrest, was the
a'lam. Even the Khui foundation recognised this fact at the death of the late
Imam. It seems to me to be a serious problem since the condition of a'lamiyya
no longer seems to be necessary and we seem to have entered a new era in the way
the community conducts its affairs. Perhaps the Akhbari position is preferable
- taqleed in it's present state after all does not date back more than 200
years at the most. Answer: By
the grace of Allah, there are more than one Maraje', all of them suitable.
If you are convinced that Ayatullah Syed Muhammad Rouhani is your Marja', then
you will make a niyya to follow his fatawa. It is not
true to say that 'Alimiyya is no more a condition for a Marja'. It is a debatable
point. Akhbari school is not applicable to us because
the reliance of Akhbar is always subjected to scrutiny be the Ulama of Rijaal. Also,
it is not true that Taqleed is 200 years old. The fact is that it is an institution
which existed from the time of the Prophet (S.A.W.W.). The consensus on a Marja'
has become easy during the last two centuries, and the contact has been facilitated
bu technological advances. And Allah knows best. Asgharali
M M Jaffer |  |
Marriage
- Importance of Marriage in Islam? QUESTION:
What
is the importance of marriage in Islam? Is it sunnat or wajib? I have heard
that it is so recommended that if you cannot find someone to marry you should
marry your sister's husband? Is this allowed? Does the situation change if
your sister divorces this husband? How about if the sister dies? ANSWER: Marriage
is a highly recommended act in the religion of Islam. The Holy Prophet (SAW)
has said that whosoever turns away from his sunnah of marriage is not amongst
him. However, it is not allowed for a woman to marry her sister's husband as
long as her sister is alive and married to the man. The situation does change
once the sister dies. Wa Minallahit Tawfiq Mustafa
Jaffer |  |
Marriage
- Permission necessary from parents? QUESTION: As
a Muslim sister I would like to ask why are you allowed to get married without
your parents permission to an Islamic Shia male knowing that it would hurt
your parents if you married this man and in Islam a person who hurts there
parents we never see heaven. Please could you explain in detail what should
be done. ANSWER:
If
a girl who has reached the age of bulugh and is a virgin and mature (i.e. she
can decide what is in her interest) wishes to marry, she should obtain permission
from her father or her paternal grandfather. If she is
not a virgin, or even if she is a virgin but her father and paternal grandfather
refuse to grant permission to her for marrying a man who is compatible to her
in the eyes of Sharia', it will not be necessary to seek their permission. Asgherali
M M Jaffer |  |
Marriage
- Vows during Hajj? Question: I
have a heard that during Hajj when you are in Mecca, the marriage vows between
husband and wife are no longer valid for few days. Is this true and what is
the reasoning behind it.
Answer: When
a person enters into the state of ihram, s/he is required to focus attention
only on Allah, and contemplate on self purification. Apart from it's social
dimension, hajj is also an act of self discipline and character building. Therefore,
you will find that things which are normally allowed become prohibited e.g.
looking at a mirror, performing nikah, removing hair from the body etc. To
help attain the pure state of the mind, discipline in moral rectitude, Allah
has legislated that in the state of ihram, one is not allowed to enter into
sexual relations with the wife. If one does it before reaching the station
of Muzdalifa and one is aware of the rulings on the issue, then the hajj is
nullified (batil)and kaffara is obligatory. If the sexual
act is done after Muzdalifa then the hajj is o.k. but kaffara will still have
to be offered. Moreover, even kissing the spouse is
not allowed in the state of ihram. As for touching the wife, it is allowed
if it is not done with lustful intention. If foreplay with one's spouse results
in ejaculation then kaffara has to be paid. It becomes
clear that the marriage vows are not revoked even temporarily in the state
of ihram. On the contrary, normal sexual activities are temporarily prohibited
so that one should focus on the purpose of going for hajj, i.e. attaining closeness
to the divine and establishing a close and intimate relationship with Allah. Please
remember me in your prayers
Liyakatali |
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with Ahlul Kitab QUESTION: How
does one treat a girl who is married to a Christian man? As The Muslim man
can marry an Ahlul Kitab woman but the Muslim woman cannot marry an Ahlul Kitab
man. ANSWER:
Permanent
marriage to the Ahlul Kitab is not permissible to a Muslim, male or female.
So, anyone who has taken a spouse from Ahlul Kitab on the basis of permanent
marriage, must be advised that NIKAH is BATIL. Asgharali
M M Jaffer |  | Marrying
first cousin Question: I
have recently heard that it is makrooh to marry one's first cousin. I have never
heard this before. Do any of the Ulema say this? Answer: No
- it is not Makrooh. Asgharali M.M. Jaffer |
 | Mariah
marrying the Prophet (saww)
QUESTION: Did
Mary the Copt convert to Islam prior to marrying the Prophet (saw)? If not,
did he marry her in temporary marriage only since it is not considered permissible
to marry people of the book in permanent marriage (or was that not the case
at that time)? In whatever case, could you quote (briefly)
a reference that explains the matter? wasalaam ANSWER: I
thank you for your important question. There is some
confusion as to the country of origin of Mariah the Copt. Allama Majlisi in
his Hayataul Quloob states that Mariah and her sister Sireen were gifted to
the Holy Prophet by Najashi of Abysinnia. Most of the historians, however,
agree that it was al-Muqawqis, the ruler of Alexandria, who presented the two
young maidens as gift to the Holy Prophet. In other respects the historians
do on the whole agree. In the year 6 AH, in the month
Dhul Hijjah, the Holy Prophet sent six ambassadors to different rulers to invite
them to accept Islam. Hatib bin Abi Baltah was sent both to Najashi and al-Muqawqis.
al-Muqawqis politely declined the invitation and gave Hatib the two maidens,
a donkey (Duldul) and other gifts to be conveyed to the Holy Prophet. Mariah
and Sireen were sisters and both professed the coptic faith. On the way to
Madinah Hatib explained to the sisters the tenets and philosophy of Islam and both
of them accepted Islam. (Tabari, English translation,Vol.VIII, p.131). When
the Holy Prophet married Mariah she was thus already a Muslim. As
to the other issue to which you have adverted, namely the illegality of entering
in to a permanent marriage with a lady who belongs to the faith of Ahlul Kitaab,
the fuqaha are not all in agreement. Marhum Ayatullah Sayyid Muhsin Hakeem
(May Allah grant him an exalted position in jannah) held that it was permissible
to do so. Marhum Ayatullah Sayyid Khui (May Allah grant him an exalted position)
held that it was wajib on precautionary basis not to contract a permanent
marriage with an Ahlul Kitaab. Sayyid Seestani (may Allah grant him a long
and healthy life) holds that it is not permissible to do so and one can contract
a temporary marriage only. With salaams and du'aas from
a humble servant of Ahlul Bayt and their followers, and with a request to be
remembered by you in your prayers, Bashir Rahim |
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- allowed or not allowed? QUESTION: I
just had a very simple question, Assuming that their was a person who was not
able to get permenantly married, and he could not find any one to get temporarely
married to either, would it be allowed for him to masturabate in order to satisfy
his reproductive urges in cases of extreme psychological and physiological
stress due to sexual deprivation. I know that some sunni scholard would say
that if unable to get married a person is allowed to masturbate in order to
save himself from zina or fornication and I just wanted to know what our point
of view would be about this. ANSWER: Islam
has established legitimate ways of fulfilling desires. In addition, there are
other ways (e.g. recreational activities, extra meditational exercises, seeking
company of the pious ones) to divert one's attention from inordinate desires.
Just as Allah has given us desires, He has also endowed us with the abilities
to resist, control and finally master the desires. Remember,
if a person does not control his/her desires, they will control him/her. If
a person suffers from extreme psychological or physiological stress, then a local
doctor can be contacted for further advise and medication. Masturbation
is not a way of fullfilling desires, it is just a way of giving in and capitulating
to desires. It is haram and completely prohibited. May
Allah strengthen us so that we keep away from haram acts. Your
brother in Islam Liyakatali Takim |  | Masturbation
- Istimna? QUESTION: How
great a sin is istimna/masturbation? If one is unable to find a spouse, then
does it become allowable if one is afflicted physically and distracted mentally
due to unfulfilled natural instincts? ANSWER: Istimna
is Haram and committing it is a sin. For a person who can not control his natural
instincts, one has to learn avoiding distracting thoughts and get married as
soon as possible - either a permanent marriage or a fixed time one. Asgherali
M M Jaffer |  | Matam
with blades or otherwise, is it allowed? QUESTIONS: It
is my understanding that the act of beating one's self in mourning for Imam Husayn
a.s. with blades or otherwise, is allowed in Islam. Q(a)
But when this type of behavior leads non-muslims to believe that the Shi'ah
are barbarious and that their religion is based more on emotion than reason,
and it confirms their misconception about us that we are fanatics and zealots,
can it still be considered allowed? ANSWER: A(a)
The ritual of self-flagellation as part of the Muharram observances has generated
heated discussion amongst the scholars and laity. For instance, around mid
1920's Sayyid Abu-l-Hasan Isfahani in Najaf and Sayyid Muhammad Qazwini in
Basra issued legal opinions against this practise. A similar position was taken
by Muhsin al-Amin. They were rebutted by Abd-ul-Husayn al-Hilli and members
of the Kashif al-Ghita family. Two issues were of concern for the jurists -
one is that this ritual at times led to the loss of human life and second, public
perception of Shi'ism. Ayatullah Sayyid Ali Khamena'i made this ritual of qame
zadan (hitting the head with a knife) haram by virtue of the harm it does to
public image of Shi'ism. Also, Shaykh Shamsuddin and most probably even Ayat.
Fadlullah have issued legal opinions similar to Ayat. Khamena'i. However, most
of the prominent jurists have a different opinion. For instance, Ayat. Gulpaygani
and Ayat. Araki allow the ritual of self-flagellation so long as there is no
fear of loss of life or causing injury to any organ of the body. However, Ayat.
Gulpaygani states that it is better to avoid this practise based on precaution
(ihtiyat). They all emphasize that the commemmorative mourning ceremonies,
that take different forms, must be kept alive to preserve the vitality of the
symbol of Imam Husayn (a.s.). In all probability the legal opinions of Ayat.
Khui and Seestani on this would be the same as Ayats. Araki and Gulpaygani.
Q(b) Doesn't this type of behavior
misguide people from the school of Ahlul-Bayt? If it does, are we responsible
for that?
ANSWER: A(b)
If it can be demonstrated to the jurists that it misguides people,
then perhaps they would prohibit it. Q.(c)
What are the guidelines of Azaa that the Imams (as) have
given us? Have they instructed us to beat ourselves or have they condoned this? ANSWER: A(c)
The Imams (a.s.) have given very general guidelines to
us and that is to mourn for them and show sorrow and grief. These different rituals
are human expression of public display of the grief. However, Imam Husayn (a.s.)
gave a clear instruction to his sister not to scratch her face or tear apart
her clothes.
Q(d) Have
any leading mujtahideen ruled on this matter so far. ANSWER: A(d)
The answer to this question can be obtained from above
-A (a).
wa bi-l-laahi-t-tawfiq, Hamid
Mavani SOURCES: Ayats. Khumayni, Gulpaygani, Khamena'i,
Araki "Jadidtarin Istifta'at ..." Ja'far al-Khalili, "Hakadha
'araftuhum," 2 vols. Abu Mikhnaf, "Maqtal al-Husayn." |
 | Me'raj
- Ascension of the Prophet (s) to Heaven QUESTION: Shias
believe the ascension of the Prophet [s] was bodily and not in spirit only
(as believed by Sunnis). There is a line in Dua-e-Nudba which reads as follows: "wa
'arajta biruhihi ila samaaik" The translation I
have reads as follows: "And (You) did make him ascend with his soul towards
Your heavens" The verses that follow indicate that
the ruh here could not have been Jibrail. I'd like to know what this verse
is refering to. ANSWER: There
is absolutely no contradiction in what we Shias believe and the line in Dua
e Nudba. The English translation, however, may not be entirely just to the
Arabic meaning and hence the line has to be understood in Arabic. The word
'BIRUHIHI' means with his soul. This does not mean without his body. The word
'BIRUHIHI' is actually used to confirm that when the Holy Prophet (SAW) ascended
the skies, he went there live and conscious - not in his dreams as many would
like us to believe. Moreover, if it was only the RUH
that ascended, then the correct Arabic rendering would be 'ARAJTA RUHAHU' -
as grammarians will confirm. By placing a 'BI' in the beginning of the word
'RUH' shows that the RUH was only of the things that ascended - the person
of the Holy Prophet (SAW) was the other. Wa Minallaahit
Tawfiq Mustafa Jaffer |  | Me'raj
- Did Prophet (s) see God or speak to Him? QUESTION: I
have question about "Miraj"; Did Holy Prophet see God or speak to Him on
this occision and are there any prophets who had done so. ANSWER:
Our
belief in Allah is such that nobody has ever seen nor will anybody ever see
Allah. Some Sunnis do believe that they will see Allah on the Day of Judgement,
but we believe otherwise. However, speaking to the Holy
Prophet - Yes, according to the narrations recorded about the whole incident
of Me'raaj, Allah did talk to the Holy Prophet (SAW). An
interesting point here is that the various modes of revelation recorded in
History are either through Jibrael (as was for most of the Prophets including
our Prophet); or through dreams (as in the case of Prophet Ibrahim); or by
creating speech (as in the case of Prophet Musa); or direct speech - that was
priveleged only to our Holy Prophet - him being the best of all Prophets. References: Nasikhut
Tawarikh - Vol III (quoted in Kalimatur Rasulul A'azam) 'Ulumul Qur'an by Dawood
Al-Attar With Salaams and Duas Mustafa |
 | Me'raj
- What is the Shiite belief in seeing Allah? QUESTION: Technically
I am a "sunni", but (alhamdulilah) I find guidance in much of what
the shi'a 'alims say. When the brother stated "but we believe otherwise"
what exactly did he mean? Believe me, brother, my question is sincere. I always
imagined all people standing before Allah(swt) on judgement day. I'd just like
to know what the shi'a belief is as it relates to this matter. Thank you in
advance. ANSWER: The Shias
believe very strongly that Allah cannot appear to anyone in any form neither
in this world nor in the hereafter. He is not in any form and thus with regard
to the references to His body parts, for instance: "Yadullaah
Fawqa Aydiihim" 48:10 Allah's hand is over their hands. OR "Wujuhun
Yawmaidhin Naadira; Ilaa Rabbihaa Naadhira" 75:22-3 Faces on that day
will be resplendant; Unto their Lord attentive. The Shias
believe that the use of body parts for Allah is metaphorical, thus describing
the powers Allah has to perform the functions performed by the body parts mentioned.
It is thus only to simplify our understanding of what powers He has. With
Salaams and Duas Mustafa |  | Memorising
the Qur'an QUESTION: What
is the religious merit of memorizing suras of the qur'an? how does it compare
to other actions such as namaz, etc? ANSWER: Memorizing
the Holy Quran is a very commendable act. However, one must realise that nothing
is comparable with Namaz - for it is the absolute basic one must do before
any other acts however good they may be. If prayers (Namaz) is not accepted,
then no other deed, however many and good they may be, is accepted. Memorization
(Hifz) of the Holy Quran is indeed a virtue much sought after. The rewards
are also great. The Holy Prophet(SAW) has said that the number of levels in
Jannah will be equal to the number of verses in the Holy Quran. For every verse
we will be able to recite, we shall be elevated a level. Wa
Minallaahit Tawfiq, Mustafa Jaffer |
 | Men
wearing earrings? QUESTION: Is
it Haraam for a man to wear an ear-ring? ANSWER: I
do apologise for the delay in responding to the above question. Normally
it is haraam for a man to wear the dress of a woman. Dress in this respect
would include articles of adornment. Both Ayatullah Khui and Ayatullah Seestani
have ruled that it is unlawful even to wear a dress whose cloth, colour or
stitching is not befitting the status of the person wearing it. It is precautionary
unlawful (ihtiyatan haraam) for a man to wear a woman's dress or for a woman
to wear the dress of a man. However, according to Ayatullah Seestani, praying
in such a dress would not invalidate the prayers. The
nature of dress and other accoutrement is very much the matter of culture.
What Islam is concerned with is simulation by a person of one gender of the
opposite gender. If culturally any particular type of dress or adornment is
an acceptable norm by both the genders then it may not be considered as prohibited.
This is subject to the proviso that the material from which the dress or adornment
is made is not haraam per se, as gold and silk are for men. Applying
the above principle there would seem to be no objection to a man wearing an
earring not made of gold of a design exclusively used by women. However, it
should be borne in mind that earrings are especially, if not exclusively worn
by women, and although an earring for men has become the norm, we as muslims
must weigh its need or usefulness before adopting the practice. Allah
knows best, and may He forgive our mistakes and transgressions. [References:
Taudhihul Msaaeel, Ayatullah Khui No. 853, 854; Ayatullah Seestani No. 853
and 854] With salaams and du'aas from an humble servant
of Ahlul Bayt and their followers, and with a request to be remembered by you
in your prayers,
Bashir Rahim |  | Men's
Clothing QUESTION: Is
it makruh for men to wear short sleeved shirts and is it haram for men to expose
their chests in public? Is it haram for men to wear shorts that do not cover
his knees? ANSWER: It is
not makruh to wear short sleeved shirts, nor is it haram for men to expose
their chests in public. Shorts which do not cover a man's knees are makruh,
and if they leave the thighs exposed then it is haram. Wassalaam Asgherali
M M Jaffer |  | Messiah
- Does this refer to Jesus (peace be upon him)? QUESTION
1: A question about Prophet Isa(as): What is the
meaning/purpose of his being raised alive to heaven and returning behind Al-Mahdi(as)?
What is he to do then when Al-Mahdi(as) returns? And, what is the meaning
of the word Messiah, does that refer to Isa(as) or to Al-Mahdi(as)? ANSWER: Maseeh
means the Anointed one, the one who has been graced by Allah to deliver mankind
from the slough of sin by leading them to the True Path. Certainly Hadhrat
Isa was a maseeh. So were all the Prophets and the aimmah (A.S.). Inshallah
Hadhrat Isa will soon reappear with our Awaited One, Imam Saahibul'Asr (A.S.)
to rid the world of evil. These two are the awaited massehs. |
 | Miscarriage
- Burial of fetus QUESTION As-salam
u aleikum, I'm working in an Islamic cemetery foundation
in Switzerland. We have some troubles with the authorities, who does not accept
our way of burial etc. Recently, we have been asked for help from a sister
who had a misscariage at about 6 month of pregnancy. She explained to us that
she would like to burry her childrens (twins), and that the authorities refuses
because at 6 month of pregnency, her childrens are just considered as foetus
and not as human. Now, her childrens are preserved
in formol at the hospital and they want to burn them. What is the islamic procedure,
in this case ? Is it burial in all case ? Or when is the foetus considered
a human ? Please we need a very quick answer because the time they preserve
the foetus is very short. N.B. I'm a follower of Seyyed
Sistani (may he live long) With salams and du'a.
ANSWER: Salaamun
'alaykum, The fetus should be [given ghusl], wrapped
in a piece of cloth and buried. It should not be burnt. Liyakatali
Takim | Miscarriage
- Burial of fetus ? FOLLOW-UP QUESTION: Salaam
Alaikum, Please clarify your answer about this question.
Please clear the above question a little further for me. After how many weeks
of pregnancy should it be considered that a fetus requires burial? 2?4?6?10?24?
These answers are important today for Jaffria Fiqh followers. Does
the fetus also required ghusal & Kafan? Again after how many weeks? Thank
You! ANSWER: AYAT. SEESTANI'S
RULING (From Islamic Laws) 564.* If a foetus of 4 months
or more is still-born it is obligatory to give it Ghusl, and even if it has
not completed four months, but it has formed features of a human child, it
must be given Ghusl, as a precaution. In the event of both of these circumstances
being absent, the foetus will be wrapped up in a cloth and buried without Ghusl. |
 | Missed
prayer and fast of a convert QUESTION: Should
a convert/revert make up prayers and fasts that were missed before he/she
became Muslim? Please reply according to Ayat.
Seestani. ANSWER: Before
a person becomes a Muslim, he/she has no obligation to pray and fast, therefore,
he/she does not have any duty to make up any prayers or fasts. (This is not
an issue concerned with Taqleed). I have not
found anything in Seestani's Risaalah (or any other for that manner). However,
it is a matter of logic that no one can be obligated to perform the duties
of a Muslim before he/she becomes a Muslim. If they were obligated to perform
an act of worship according to their previous faith, those acts will not carry
over into Islam once a person converts. A convert starts with a clean slate
and any negligence regarding their religious duties prior to becoming a Muslim
is forgiven after conversion. Note that this issue refers only to acts of worship
and such. Obligations like debts and agreements are still binding upon a convert. Was-Salaam Ali
Rasheed |  | Missing
Salaat during the month of Ramadhan QUESTION: I
realize that one's fast is not acceptable if a prayer during that day has been
missed. However, when one makes up this prayer, must the fast also be made
up? That is, during Ramadan, if one missed a prayer during one of those days,
must that day be re-fasted? I need the ruling from Ayt.
Seestani. ANSWER: For the
fast to be valid, one has to refrain from committing certain acts from fajr
to maghrib like eating, drinking, intentionally attributing a false report
to God, Prophet (S) or Imams (a.s.), engaging in intimate relationship, etc.
However, observing the obligatory ritual prayers is not one of them. Therefore,
neglecting to perform the wajib prayers would constitute a sin but it would
NOT render the fast void. But let me add that the ritual
of fasting, like other acts of worship, has an exterior shell and an inner
essence. There are hadiths from the Prophet and the Imams (a.s.) to the effect
that there are many who attain no benefit from fasting except the pangs of
hunger and thirst. That is to say, one may fulfill the legal requirements of
fasting but violate the spirit of the same and as a result may not be entitled
to any spiritual reward. Another vivid example where
the legal requirement and the spirit of fasting clash applies to a traveller
(musafir) who undertakes a journey for the commission of a sin. Under normal
circumstances, a musafir is not allowed to fast, however, in the case of one
whose journey is for a sinful purpose he/she is obligated to fast. This certainly
would be violating the Qur'anic spirit that fasting was enjoined in order to cultivate
the qualities of God-consciousness and piety, however, according to our jurists
the legal injunction for such a musafir is to fast. wa
bi-l-laahi-t-tawfiq, Hamid Mavani |  | Models
of humans / animals in the house QUESTION: Is
it haraam to have models of animals as pieces of decoration in the house ? How
about models of humans ? These are not real humans but toys. How about
pictures of animals in a jungle ? These are not real pictures but paintings. ANSWER:
It
is not Haram but Makruh to have models in human or animal form as decorations.
There is no harm in pictures or paintings of humans or animals. In
Namaz, to face such pictures or models is Makruh, unless they are covered.
It is also Makruh to pray in a room with such a picture, even if you are not
facing it, except if it is covered. see Islamic Laws, Agha Seestani, Masail
907. And Allah knows best Salaams Asgharali
M M Jaffer |  | Mono
- Diglycerides (emulsifying agents in puddings etc...) QUESTION: Salaam, While
most mono-and diglycerides (emulsifying agents in puddings, ice cream,peanut
butter, salad dressings, bread etc) on the market come from plants (the oils
of corn, peanuts and soybeans),some are derived from animals (cows and hogs).
Identifying the foods that use animal sources is near impossible. Food labels
are required to report only the presence of mono-and
diglycerides, not their sources. Are these products halal? ANSWER: In
such a situation, the products mentioned will be considered Halal. Asgharali
M.M. Jaffer |  | Month
of Safar Question: I
have heard that the month of Safar is a very "bhari" (in gujarati: heavy) month.
Due to this, it is advisable that we should not engage in any travels or buy
anything new unless it is absolutely necessary. Is there any Islamic basis
behind this lifestyle in the month of Safar? It seems to me with a name like
"Safar" travelling would actually be reccomended. Please let me know
if there are any precautions to be taken in this month as well. Answer: Safar
is spelled with Sad and not Seen as in Safara (travelled) in Arabic. Some dictionaries
translate Safar to mean "Devoid of (good)" There
are some Ahadith that during certain days in the month of Safar one should
avoid travel, especially between the 10th and 20th. If one has to travel, it
is recommended to give some money in Sadqa (charity) before doing so. In Mafaatihul
Jinaan, there is a small Du'a to be recited ten times daily to avert the Bala
(trials) in the month of Safar. Wasalaam Asgharali
M M Jaffer |  | Moses
& Jesus ( peace be upon them) Question: During
a conversation with a christian fellow, he brought up an argument that MOSES
KILLED AN EGYPTIAN quoted in EXODUS chapter 2, and JESUS AND GOD ARE THE SAME
quoted in JOHN chapter 1. Are these true and how should
I respond back to him regarding these? Answer: MOSES
KILLED AN EGYPTIAN This a true fact that took place in the history of Prophet
Musa (AS). The incident has been narrated in the Holy Quran as well. An Egyptian
cook of Pharoah (Fira'un) was beating an innocent Israelite (member of the
Bani Israel - to whom Prophet Musa (AS) had been sent as a messenger). When
the poor Israelite saw Prophet Musa (AS), he called out for help. Prophet Musa
(AS) in extending his assistance to the Israelite, struck a blow to the Egyptian cook
to ward him off, but the blow proved fatal and the Egyptian fell dead. This
was not killing as in cold blood murder, but was death in defence. For more
details, see Verses 15-20 of Surat-ul-Qasas (30) and refer to comments by S
V Mir Ahmed Ali. JESUS AND GOD ARE THE SAME This statement
cannot be true for a Muslim whatsoever. However to argue with Christians regarding
the different semantic analysis of various words like SPIRIT, SON, FATHER and
so on are better found in specialist Muslim-Christian dialogues. This topic
has been extensively discussed in the soc.religion.islam newsgroup. Wallaahu
A'alam Mustafa Jaffer |  | Mothers
Qadha Salaat QUESTION: Salam
alaykum, I am the youngest daughter in my family. My
monther died 16 years ago with many qadha prayers. My only brother is not capable
of either doing the prayers himself or paying someone else due to a handicap.
Can I do or pay someone to the the prayers on behalf of my mother ? This is
something i would very much like to do if it is permissible to do so. Also
what is the best way to go about finding someone to do so and how much would
one normally offer them ?. Thank you ANSWER:
As a rule, it is the eldest male child on whom the qaza
of father's prayers (and also the mother's prayers on basis of ihtiyat) is
wajib. This obligation on the eldest son does not prevent other members of
the family from hiring someone to perform the qaza prayer on behalf of the
deceased parent. The best way to go about finding
someone to do the qaza pray is to contact your local organization or `alim
who is willing to arrange it in Middle East, India or Pakistan, etc. They will
also let you know the cost involved in such arrangements. Syed
Muhammad Rizvi |  | Mother
dies with many of Qadha salaat? QUESTION: Salam
alaykum, I am the youngest daughter in my family. My
monther died 16 years ago with many qadha prayers. My only brother is not capable
of either doing the prayers himself or paying someone else due to a handicap.
Can I do or pay someone to the the prayers on behalf of my mother ? This is something
i would very much like to do if it is permissible to do so. Also what is the
best way to go about finding someone to do so and how much would one normally
offer them ?. Thank you ANSWER:
As a rule, it is the eldest male child on whom the qaza
of father's prayers is wajib. This obligation on the eldest son does not prevent
other members of the family from hiring someone to perform the qaza prayer
on behalf of the deceased parent. It is also better (awla) to do the qaza
prayers of the mother. The best way to go about
finding someone to do the qaza pray is to contact your local organization or
`alim who is willing to arrange it in Middle East, India or Pakistan, etc.
They will also let you know the cost involved in such arrangements. Syed
Muhammad Rizvi |  | Mouth
Wash QUESTION: I
seem to remember a recent question on mouthwash but could not find it in the
archives. My husband wants to know if it is okay to use mouthwash such as Listerine,
Plax, etc. The ingredients lists alcohol but does not say what kind of alcohol. ANSWER: The
use of mouthwash like Listerine, Plax, etc. containing alcohol is permissible
for use. The percentage of alcohol used in medicine, either evaporates in the
preparation, or is industrial type, hence permitted to use. Asgharali
M.M. Jaffer |  | Mut'a
Procedures QUESTION: I
need to ask a question about the procedures of mu'ta. I am in mu'ta for a year
and my engagement has been extended to two years and I need to renew the contract.
Can this contract be renewed without a waiting time, since it is the same two
people. Additionally, when do I redo the aqd? What I mean to ask is when does
the contract expire, if my mu'ta is contracted on 21st July 1997, then does
it expire 21st July 1998? Does it expire at the same time that it was contracted
to make it a full year. My mu'ta was not contracted in the country of my residence,
do I have to allow for the time difference? I know that this is a picky question,
but, I need help in answering it since this problem is looming for me. I would
like to thank-you all in advance, May Allah(s.w.t) give you ajar for your efforts. ANSWER: The
contract between the same two people can be extended and/or renewed without
any waiting period and before the expiry of the time of the first contract.
In your case, I would suggest a renewal/extension for another two years. The
renewal or extension is in fact a new contract and hence will specify a new
time and a new mahr. The boy will first have to 'gift' you the remaining time
(it may be only a couple of hours). This is done just by the boy saying "I
gift you the remaining period of this Aqd". Thereafter, even immediately,
a new contract is recited either by the boy and girl themselves or their representatives
thus enacting a new contract valid for two years. In this case, there is no
IDDA because the parties are the same.... With Salaams
and Duas Mustafa Jaffer |  | Muhammad
Nafs az Zakiyyah? QUESTION: What
is the 12vr view of Muhammad Dhu-Nafs Azakiya bin Abdullah Al-Kamel bin Hasan
Al-Muthanna bin Hasan bin Ali bin Abu Talib? I talked
to a zaidi and he claims that Nafs Azzakiya was the rightful Imam of his time,
and it can be proven historically that he did claim the imamate for himself.
What is our response? ANSWER: In
answer to your question, please note the followings: FIRST:
A Brief Background on Muhammad Nafs az-Zakiyya: Muhammad
bin 'Abdullah bin Hasan al-Muthanna bin Hasan bin 'Ali, known as Muhammad Nafs
az-Zakiyya--Muhammad, master of the pure soul, was promoted by his father 'Abdullah
as the Mahdi. In a meeting of some 'Alids and some 'Abbasids
(including Abu Ja'far al-Mansur who later on became the 2nd 'Abbasid caliph),
in Abwa, outside Medina, the plot to overthrow the Umayyids was hatched. It
was in this gathering that 'Abdullah presented his son as the Mahdi to whom
all should pledge allegiance. When Imam Ja'far as-Sadiq
(a.s.) was informed about the meeting and its purpose, he went there and advised
against the plot, and also rejected --very openly and clearly-- the claim of
Mahdism by Muhammad Dhu Nafs az-Zakiyya. Upon this rejection, 'Abdullah bin
Hasan accused Imam as-Sadiq of envy and jealousy.
The group did not listen to the Imam's advice; they went ahead with their plan
in which the 'Abbasids treacherously usurped the power, and killed or pushed
aside all those who were instrumental in bringing down the Umayyid dynasty.
'Abdullah bin Hasan al-Muthanna was arrested on Mansur's orders and put in
prison. His sons, Muhammad Nafs Zakiyya and Ibrahim, went into hiding. Finally
Muhammad organized an uprising, took over Mecca and Medina; but he was unable
to defend himself against the 'Abbasid forces sent to crush the uprising. Muhammad
Nafs Zakiyya was killed in the battle outside Medina in 145 A.H. (See al-Mufid,
Kitab al-Irshad, pp. 417-419, 'Abbas al-Qummi, Muntahal Amal, volume 1; Abul
Faraj al-Isfahani, Maqatilut Talibiyin, and other books on Islamic history). SECOND:
"The Zaidi friend claims that Muhammad Nafs Zakiyya did claim the Imamate
for himself. What is our response?" First of all,
your Zaidi friend has made a claim. Your response should be to ask for evidence
to back up his claim, and then respond to his evidence. Secondly, there
are other issues which must be discussed before reaching to the claim of imamate
for Muhammad Nafs Zakiyya: is Imamate by nass (divine designation) or not?
If yes, who was named in the nass after the Prophet? Who was named by the first
Imam as his successor? Thirdly, from what I have briefly
described above, it was 'Abdullah bin Hasan al-Muthanna, the father, who introduced
his son, Muhammad Nafs Zakiyya, as the Mahdi. Obviously claiming to be the
Mahdi also means that he was claiming to be an Imam. If you can prove that
he was not the Mahdi, it follows that he was not an Imam either. It is a well-known
fact among the Muslims that when the Mahdi appears, he will establish God's
rule on the earth; there will be peace and harmony in the human society. Muhammad
Nafs Zakiyya was killed in the battle; he never established the kind of government
which is expected from the Mahdi. So he was not the Mahdi, and, therefore,
not an Imam. I hope this is sufficient. Yours
in Islam, Sayyid Muhammad Rizvi |  | Muharram
- What actions are not recommended? Question
: Someone told me the following things re: Muharram.
Can you please tell me if they are true, and if so, where do these come from?
Please cite the rulings or hadith that refer to these matters or that otherwise explain their
source. JazakAllah. Do not start any new business in
Muharram, it will ultimately fail. Do not buy or wear new clothes in Muharram
it will make you poor. Do not move into a new house in Muharram, it will bring
disasters. Do not eat food that is commonly eaten in happy days in Muharram.
Do not accept any gift, award or prize in Muharram it will bring pride. Do
not buy a new car in Muharram it will bring accidents. On the day of Ashura
we should never fast however partial fast till evening is good. On Ashura
day never do business and if at all you earn money, that day's earning should
be given in charity. Biggest insult to Imam Hussein on the day of Ashura is
to smile or laugh or talk of worldly matters. Answer: Out
of the whole statement made, only one thing is true - the one about not fasting,
but remaining hungry until evening on the day of Ashura. The rest is more
cultural and sentimental and no mention of it is found in any hadith. Mustafa
Jaffer |  | Mujtahideen
- Education and Qualifications? QUESTION: Aslam-o-Alikum Please
be sure that I do not mean any disrespect to any Ayatullah or the great alims
of our sect. However what I am extremely confused about is that I have seen
in Pakistan at least, usually the not-so-bright amongst the family go for religious
education, like I am a software engineer and most of my cousins are also quite
well educated in worldly terms, however the one who could perform not so good
was sent to a madrassa, now he is planing to go to Qom. I do not know the process
of becoming an Ayatulloh but I think that the syllabus is not well versed in
scientific education and the stress is mostly on faiqah and shariah etc. However
I read in Nahjul-Balagha by the Bab-ul-ilm (AS) that science and religion will
ignite fire if seperated from each other. My question
is that I do not know the background of the current marajahs and I do not know
the syallabus and kind of education they went through to become a Mujhtahid,
I do not also know the input criteria of such institutions and from what I
gather its not extremely tough to get in. Personally my study and research
on Islam shows that scientific education is a must in Islam as is the fiqah.
Somehow my heart does not agree that I should be in
a taqleed of a person and consider his as the ultimate word in religion when
I am not sure about his knowledge and calibre in all the fields of life. Yet sometimes
I am scared that I am not doing right, actually the same is the problem with
all my cousins and friends and I would be very grateful if you can help and
advice us on this. ANSWER: I
shall be obliged if the book Fiqh and Fuqaha is given to this brother to acquaint
him with the subject. Later, he may write to us for
further elucidation. With Salaams, Asgharali
M M Jaffer |  | Mujtahid
- How to become one? QUESTION: Assalam
Alaykum wa rahmatullah hi wa barakatahu, I'm a 20 year old Indian student presently
in the united states.I feel I'm not fulfilling the purpose of my life completely
by just trying to make a name for myself in the modern world.I also want to
deeply educate myself in the principles of islam.I want to become an Mujtahid
of the Ahlul Bait Jaaferi school of thought.I have to study and work in the UNITED
STATES in order to fulfill my family duties. so I'm unable to go to one of
the Hauz-e-Ilmiyas to study under a teacher. I would like to find out if there
is a way for me to study the various subjects that a Mujtahid has to have knowledge
of through books and guidance of any teachers or mujtahids here in the united
states. I understand that one needs a Certificate from one of the theology
schools to be recognized as a Mujtahid.Is there a way that I can study similar
to distance learning and be able to fulfill my goal? please advice me in this
matter ANSWER: Salaamun
'alaykum, Attaining the level of ijtihad requires many
years of study and research work under the proper guidance of the ulama'.
Most of these courses are not available here in the west, nor can one study
to be a Mujtahid from this distance. In the West,
you can take some courses to familiarize yourself with the introductory study
of Islam. These are available at such places as the Hawza in Medina and various
places in England. These courses will enable you to undertake
further research work in the Hawda should you choose to pursue the field of
ijtihad. With salaams and du'as L.
Takim |  | Mushrooms
- Are they Halal? QUESTION: I
have heard that mushrooms are a form of fungus and not vegetables. Are they
halal? ANSWER: Mushrooms
are Halal. Islamic law does not necessary follow scientific classifications.
Wa-salaam, Ali Rasheed |  | Music
- Which music is allowed? Question: Based
on Ayatullah Seestani recent rulings. Which Music is OK to listen to and which
is not.
....I also wonder about lullabies for babies. Answer: Salaamun
'Alaykum, According to the Ayatullah Seestani, that music
which is used for entertainment and corrupt (Agha uses the word fusuq) purposes
is haram. Two months back, I had translated Agha's fatwa on sending children
to musical sessions on the ABDG, so please refer to it. Based
on the above answer, lullabies do not, from my understanding, fall under the
category of music which can be classified as haram. See
Ayatullah Seestani's Mustahdathat min Masa'il al-Shar'iyya, pg 28. And
Allah Knows best Liyakatali |  | Music
- Funeral and Military music allowed QUESTION: There
is a lot of confusion what is Halal Music & what is not. Especially since
Iran permits all kinds now. Any clarifications possible? Can one refer this
matter to Marja other than one whos taqlid is being done (Aytollah Seestani?) ANSWER: Ayatullah
Seestani has a very clear fatwa on Music which disallows all kinds of music
except military and funeral music. Mustafa Jaffer |
 | Music
- How to give up music as a habit? QUESTION: Saalam
Alikum I wanted to know, as to how it is possible to
break a sinning habit like listening to Music. At times one asks for forgiveness
genuinly but commits the sin again forgetting that it is a sin. We are told
in many places that once you commit a sin and then ask for forgiveness, you
should not commit the same sin again. But what if it was a habit and sometimes
one tries very hard to break it but being human we slip and forget and commit
the sin again. >Will Allah (s.w.a) forgive such
a person? Please advice soon!! ANSWER: Breaking
off of a bad habit needs firm resolution and committment (needless to say).
You have been trying to give it up, but find yourself returning to the folds
of Music listeners. My advice is keep on trying and one day you will find you
have given it up totally! Do not give up trying! Allah
is very very Merciful and Forgiving. He will forgive anything and your repetition
of sins can also be forgiven provided you draw a line and sincerely stop. Have
you sought solace in alternatives? Perhaps find something else to occupy you
during times when you get the urge to listen to Music? Try also reciting certain
Duas and performing certain actions that help a person refrain from committing
sins [eg. fasting]. May the Almighty help us all from
the enticements and traps of Shaytan - Amen. With Salaams
and Duas Mustafa Jaffer |  | Music
- Can one buy Music cassettes? QUESTION: Is
it permissible to buy music cassettes or CD's for someone who is non-Muslim
and does not believe the music is haram? What about for a Shia Muslim who chooses
to listen to the music although he/she is aware of the rulings regarding music. Please
reply according to Ayat. Sistani ANSWER: It
is not permissible to do any such thing that could encourage the disobedience
of Allah irrespective of whether the person believes the act to be an act of
disobedience or not. With Salaams and Duas Mustafa
Jaffer |  | Music
- Is classical music allowed? QUESTION: Is
classical music such as Bach and Beethoven among the types considered permissible,
or might some of it or all of classical music be haraam? ANSWER: Classical
Music is amongst the type permitted. If Bach and Beethoven fall into the category
of Classical music, then it is allowed. With Salaams
and Duas Mustafa Jaffer |  | Music
- What types of music is allowed? QUESTION: What
kind of music/song is allowed in Shariah. The ulema I have talked to so far
mantain that the music used in " LEHW AND LAAB" is not permisible. This term
is not clear to many of our Momineen. Please clarify this and if possible with
example. I am a muqallid of Ayatullah Al Uzma Syed Ali
Sistani. ANSWER: [Moderator's
Note: The following answer was obtained from the above referenced book. Additional
questions regarding Music are available at the link below]. Question
posed to Syed Seestani: What is the limit separating
lawful from unlawful music? If the criterion is its being labeled "entertainment
or amusement," then this is not clear according to convention because there
are differences of opinion on that. Answer The
separating limit is its being of suitable quality for the gatherings of amusement
and of immorality. http://www.al-islam.org/laws/contemporary/muamalat5.html
|  | Music
- Why is music haram? Question: Why
is music haram, and what are the origins of this law? Answer:
Generally
speaking, music is deemed to be haram due to it's effects on a person's soul
and the possible effects on morals. It is also very addictive and can lead
to a person indulging in vain things which can make him lose his purpose in
life. I have observed the society around and am sure that the gradual decadence
of moral behaviour is based on 3 elements: Alcohol, womanizing and music. You
will observe this especially when you go to Universities and colleges. The
prohibition against harmful music is derived from the Qur'anic prohibition
in indulging in that which is vain (lahw), entertainment and corrupt (fisq).
See for example 49:49. Liyakatali |  | Music
- Muslims say it is acceptable to listen QUESTION: I
do taqleed of Agha Seestaani, and am wondering on the ruling concerning the
single 'I have no cannons that roar', that is being publicised by Yusuf Islam
presently. Although it is music, a lot of Muslims are saying that it is acceptable
to listen because of the nature and background of the writing. Is this true,
please help ANSWER: Music
is music and it is haraam to listen to music. In Islam, the end does not jutisy
the means. A very basic principle in Islam is " LAA YUTAAULLAH HAYTHU
YU'SAA" - Allah cannot be obeyed if, in the process, a sin is committed. With
Salaams and Duas Mustafa Jaffer |  | Music
- Aerobic exercise QUESTION: Is
it permissible to "hear" music that is played while one does aerobic
exercise? If one is an instructor, one must prepare the tape (of songs) to be
used during a session. Is it permissible to do so and use this tape as the
instructor? (The music is being used to motivate the participants to keep their
pace while exercising.) ANSWER: By
keeping in mind the opinion of the majority of mujtahideen, it is not permissible
to listen to the music while doing aerobic exercise. Exercise is not a modern
phenomenon; it has been done without music and it can be done without music.
The rule would be the same even if you are an instructor.
Surely human creativity can produce other ways of motivating the participants
in place of music! Sayyid M. Rizvi |
 | Muslims
celebrate Xmas? FROM THE QUESTIONER: Comment: The
modern era has brought upon us the tradition of the celebration of Christmas.
This holiday is the celebration of ISA (s) "Jesus". This holiday
alone gives great grief to many Muslim children. They want to get gifts just
like the other children and fell left out. QUESTIONS: 1)
To what extent is the Muslim allowed to celebrate this holiday? 2)
Is it proper for us to have trees and presents on EID-UL FITR as a counter
measure to keep the faith of the children in this non Islamic world strong? 3)
Should we use the Chrismas holiday as a way to make DAWWAH to Islam ie. give
out cards that have quotes from the HOLY Q'URAN about ISA (s) "Jesus"? ARTICLE:
Below
is the history of Santa Claus so you will be completely aware of the origion
of Santa Claus which is what the children of the West look forward to on CHRISTMAS.
The original Santa Claus, St. Nicholas was born in the
ancient southeastern Turkish town of Lycia early in the fourth century. At
an early age, Nicholas was appointed bishiop of Myra, in Asia Minor. His success
in winning converts, and his generosity toward the poor, angered Roman officials.
During a great Christian persecution, he was imprisoned and tortured under
orders of the Roman emperor Gaius Diocletianus. At age sixty, Diocletianus
abdicated his thrown which in turn pleased many Romans and was most fortunate
for Nicholas. The now emperor, Constantine( who would later convert to Christianity),
freed the bishop. And when Constantine convened the first Church council at
Nicaea in 325, Nicholas attended as a prominent member. he is believed to have
died on December 6, 342, and eventually was adopted as the patron saint of
Russia, Greece and Sicily. Children today would not at all recognize the St.
Nick who brought gifts to European children hundreds of years ago-except for
his cascading white beard. he made his rounds in full red-and -white bishop's robes
and was pulled by: no reindeer, but coaxed a stubborn donkey. Much of the modern
day Santa Claus lore, including the reindeer drawn sleigh, originated in America,
due to the popularity of a poem :The Night Before Christmas" written by
Dr. Clement Clarke Moore-a N.Y. theology professor in 1822. It was in America
that Santa put on weight. The original St. Nicholas had been a tall, slender,
elegant, bishop, and that was the image perpetuated for centuries. The rosy
cheeked, roly poly Santa is credited to the influential nineteenth century
cartoonist Thomas Nast. From 1863 until 1886, Nast created a series of Christmas
drawings for Harper's Weekly. The drawings, executed over twenty years, show
a gradual evolution into the Santa we all recognize today. However, we should
not forget the influence of the Coca Cola Co. that used this jolly symbol in its
Coke adds in the 1920-30's which totally entrenched the Santa Claus in Modern
Culture. ANSWER: In His
name, the Beneficent, the Merciful. Regarding Christmas
and how much Muslims can participate in it, I have the following points to
make. Please note that these are my opinions based on what I think would be
in line with Islamic teachings, and not based on fatwa from any particular
Mujtahid. May the Almighty safeguard me from slips and errors. It
is common knowledge with Muslims that the Holy Prophet, sallahu `alyhi wa-aalhi
wasallam, did not like Muslims to imitate practices from other religions. Thus
we read that the Holy Prophet asked Muslims not to shave their beard, for they
will be mistaken as Parsees. Also, the Muslims were asked not to leave their
beard untrimmed otherwise they would be mistaken as Jews. Another example is
calling the faithful to prayers. The Prophet wished not to use church bells
as the Christians do, nor blow the trumpet like the Jews for calling followers
to prayers. Instead, the institution of Adhaan was introduced to call Muslims
for prayers. I was surprised to read that some of our
children feel grieved when Xmas arrives because they feel left out. We Shi`a
Muslims, the followers of the Ahlul Bayt (a), have so many occasions to celebrate
(4 `eids, Me`raaj, 13 wiladats, i.e. birthdays of 14 Ma`sumeen, etc.) every
year that there should remain no complains or any grumblings from our children
that they do not get to celebrate happy occasions and have fun during the year.
Our own children who attend a Muslim school, where because of Wahabi influence Miladun
Nabi and personal birthdays are not allowed, often comment that they feel sorry
for their peers who have only two `eids to celebrate in a year. 1)
I think it is imperative that Muslims celebrate `Eids with more enthusiasm.
Children should receive gifts, new clothes, and given a chance to celebrate
with friends and family. The house can be decorated, parties may be held etc.
etc. the list of activities which could be carried out to stimulate children's
pleasure, is endless. Of course, this will vary with individual families. But
to make sure that our children do not feel deprived when they see others celebrating
christmas, we have to provide an alternative celebration for them. This would
give them something to look forward to as well as reinforce the fact that they
are different from their non-Muslim friends. It is
disappointing to note that many Muslim parents are seen rushing to work and
businesses after `Eid prayers and the children are either sent to schools or
left to pass time at home on their own. Not that it is haram or makrooh to
work on `eid days but the children see the Islamic festivals coming and going
without any fun. Sometimes, a weekend in summer is more enjoyable than a `eid
day in some Muslim houses! 2) I do not think having
trees at home is a good idea. I see no reason for a tree on `Eid, except that
the Christians do it. It would be incorporating a non-Muslim tradition into
Islam, which I think is dangerous. Plus, it could encourage imitation in other
aspects as well, which is what we should try to discourage. Instead Muslims
can think of various ways of decoration and lights and presents for a festive atmosphere
on 'Eid. 3) Sending cards with quotes (not in the original
Arabic text) from the Qur'an on Nabi `Isa, `alayhis-salaam, may be a good way
to propogate the similarities between Islam and Christianity so far as the
prophet is concerned. It would also convey a feeling of respect and consideration.
Preferably, these cards should not carry messages such as "Merry Christmas"
or anything implying that we too believe in the holiness of Christmas. With
salaams and du`as. Hasnain Kassamali Humble servant
of the Ahlul Bayt (a). |  | Muslims
- Country of residence QUESTION: Salam
Alaykom: I have a specific question regarding the place
a moslem should select for living in. More specifically regarding Islamic countries.
I am an Iranian citizen residing in the USA as a permanent resident. During
the past few years I have moved to Iran to live among other moslems and to have
my children grow up in an islamic environment. Having lived there for sometime,
I have found that social values have deviated from what I expected from an
islamic society. Specially recent events since the election of the new president
which showed the leaders of the society are more concerned about their personal
gains and getting more power than being concerned with the well being of the
people. Moreover, In that country my profession as a physical therapist is
not recognized and I am not allowed to work as a clinition. Therfore, I cannot
make a living and cannot be beneficial to the islamic society in there. In
the States, however, I can easily work and provide a comfortable life for my family.
My children are grown up enough to make good judjment about good and bad and
I am not as concerned about this issue as I was before. My question to you
is: considering all the situations, do I have to live in Iran or I can go back
and live in the states and be more beneficial to islamic society by using my
profession and also helping the needy financially. Second,
I need the E-mail address for Ayatollah Systanee or Ayatolla Khoii's office. I
would appreciate it if you could kindly reply to my question at your earliest
convenience since I have to move else where soon. Thank you for your considerations. ANSWER: Salaamun
'alaykum, You can live in the States as long as there
are no impediments to you practising Islam there. As
far as the societal/ethical values are concerned, as you are probably aware,
they are worse in USA than in the Islamic Republic. To
the best of my knowledge, Ayatullah Seestani does not have a direct email
address. However, you contact his agents or you can write directly to him
in Najaf. With salaams and du'as L.
Takim |  | Mustahab
Dhikr in Qira'at QUESTION: Is
the recitation of "Alhamdulillah" in salat allowed (out loud) in
Jamaat?? Once again, if I can have the opinion
of the Mara'ja of the time including Ayatuallah Seestani, Khu'i, and Khomeini... ANSWER: Yes
it is allowed to say "Alhamdu lillah.." after the completion of suratul Hamd
with a raised voice (but not shouting) in Jama`at Namaz also. As
indicated in my previous answer on the subject I believe there is no differnce
of opinion between various Maraji` on this issue. God
knows the best. Hasnain Kassamali |  | Mustahab
Fasts QUESTION: I
have a few questions about sunnat rawzeh (fasts) and I am hoping that you can
answer them soon, as this is the month of sunnat fasts. May I request that
the questions are answered by Mullah Bashir Rahim. Thanking you in appreciation, 1)
I have read in a text published by Rahenajat Office, Karachi and entitled Doa's
and Aaamal, that fasting the full month of Rajab acts as expiation of all sins,
leaving you as sinless as a newborn baby. But, it does not give any traditions
that have stated this, and I was wondering if such a thing could be true. 2)
In our house, it is a tradition that everyone wants to fast the 1st, 13th,
14th, 15th and 30th of Rajab and Shabaan, however, as they are often sunnat,
there is a habit that we get up in the morning and open each others fast since
they are sunnat. I was wondering if there is any value in fasting such a fast
that only lasts till breakfast, does it contain any of the thawaab and merits
of Rajab, my family members say I am committing a sin by not opening my fast
when they offer me food, since my rawzah (fast) is sunnat. Please could you
guide me in this instance. ANSWER: (1)
Mustahab fasts in the months of Rajab and Shabaan carry great rewards and may
act as expiation of many sins. Certain sins, particularly those which caused
injury, loss or hurt to others require seeking forgivingness from the party
offended. Certain other sins have prescribed methods of expiation (kaffarah). (2)
A mustahab fast becomes unlawful if a parent has forbidden it. It is also recommended
that when one is observing a mustahab fast and he is invited to have a meal
with someone else from outside the immediate family, he should partake of the
food and continue to fast after the meal as his fast would not be broken. The
custom which exists in some families and communities of forcing a member of
the family to break a mustahab fast has no basis in shari'at and is somewhat
reprehensible as it reduces the fast and the intention of the person fasting
to a mere farce. With salaams and du'aas from a humble
servant of Ahlul Bayt and their followers, and with a request to be remembered
by you in your prayers, Bashir Rahim |
 | Mustahab
Salaat QUESTION: I
know that we are not supposed to offer sunnat prayers in congregation at the
mosque, but what about a husband and wife or family offering it together behind
the husband/father at home? For example, is that okay for namaze shab or must
each pray separately? ANSWER: salaamun
'alaykum, Mustahab prayers are not to be offered in congregation
whether at home or in the mosque. For namaze shab (salat al-layl), the first
10 rak'as are straight forward like subh prayers (with a different niyya for
salat al-shaf'). If the rest of the family members do not know how to recite
salat al-witr, then the father can offer it loudly whilst the family members recite
all the suras and du'as, istighfar etc. with him. However, it is to be remembered
that this prayer is not offered as jam'a, the method I have suggested is merely
to facilitate the offerings of prayers for those not able to do so alone. Wasalaam Liyakatali
Takim |  | Mut'a
Question: I'm
writing in order to help one of my friends who is facing difficulties at university. My
friend who we will refer to as "Ali" wishes to perform Mutah with a
girl who he has known for a long period of time. However he is unsure as to
whose consent is required for the marriage to be in order. Both
parties are aware that if the girl's father of paternal grandfather is asked
their consent, it would not be granted and the girl would suffer greatly at
the hands of her parents who no doubt would send her away and would do everything
possible to make sure she and Ali never get together. Therefore
under such circumstances would it be permissible to go ahead with the Mutah
without any of the parents knowing. Once again, if any
of her parents were asked her life could be totally ruined. Ali
does the taqleed of Ayatollah Seestani.. Answer: Bismihi
Ta'alaa According to Ayatullah Seestani, it is very important
that even though a girl may have reached an age of maturity where she is almost
totally independent, she still has to seek the permission of her father or
her paternal grandfather before she marries. However,
there are certain instances in which she can proceed to marry without their
permission. The instances listed down are: i) If she
is not a virgin ii) If she is a virgin, but her father and paternal grandfather
refuse to grant her permission to marry a man who is compatible to her in the
eyes of Shariah and custom. iii) If the father and grandfather are not in
any way willing to participate in the marriage. iv) If they are not in a
capacity to give their consent like in the case of mental illness. v) If
it is not possible to obtain their permission because of their absence, or
such other reasons, and the woman is eager to get married urgently. By
clause (v), the urgency in my opinion refers to the dangers the girl may feel
she is exposing herself to and the potentials of her performing a haraam act.
If such is the case, then there is no need to take permission from the father
or the paternal grandfather. Wallahu A'alam Mustafa
Jaffer |  | Mut'a
- Can one marry a ahlul kitab? Question: I
have a question concerning "mut'a". This issue has been discussed about many
times here, and accoridng to what I have understood, one (a male muslim) can
temporarily marry to a non-muslim female as long as she is Christian or Jew(
and of course or Muslim!). My question is, knowing that in Judaism and Christianity,
this kind of marriage is not allowed, so what happens is the female party is
commiting practically adultry, considering her religion! As
a muslim how could we be neutral about this? Aren't we, by allowing this kind
of marriage to takeplace, encouraging them to commit adultry? And in that case
don't we share the act of commiting sin? Practically this marriage can only
take place when the female party doesn't care about here religion, so what
is the point to require she must be "ahl-e ketaab" ?!!! The
whole issue is still hard to understand for me! As a Shi'at muslim, I know
that this is allowed, but when it is about explanation I do not see, or understand,
much. I hope you can shed some light on it for me to be able to grasp the idea
here. Answer: It is important
to realise two things here. The first is that both Nikah (permanent) and Mut'a
(fixed-term) marriages are recognised as solemn contracts by Islam. The respect
and protection for the women by Sharia is there in both cases. Therefore to
the Christian or Jew both marriages should be viewed in identical fashion.
If they considered that a female is committing adultery in Mut'a with a Muslim
man, then they would have the same view about a similar relationship in Nikah.
As for the point about sharing in committing the sin,
that only applies when we encourage someone to break the Islamic Sharia. The
issue would also arise if the marriage was forced which is why willing consent
of both female and male is a requirement for the validity of the contract. I
have answered in greater detail about the Mut'a in a separate answer about the
relevance of Mut'a in society today. Wasalaam Asgharali
M M Jaffer |  | Muta'a
- Payment of Mahr QUESTION: Salaam
Alaikum I made long distance mut'a aqd with a man in
order to become mahram with him so that we can talk and discuss possibility
of marriage. In that aqd we agreed that I was allowed to break the mut'a at
any time I wished. We agreed upon Mahr. Later on I broke the mut'a agreement,
but I still have not been given my Mahr. Is this Mahr legally mine even though
there was no sexual contact and I ended the aqd early? ANSWER: Salaamun
'alaykum, Since the marriage was not consummated, you
are entitled to half the mahr. Liyakatali Takim |
 | Mut'a
- Responsibility for child QUESTION: assalamu
alaikum I had a question regarding Muta'a. I was wondering
if you could explain to me about a man who enters a temperory marriage and
a child is conceived as a result of that marriage. I am confused as to why
a man is not responsible for that child and his expenditure as it's indicated
in Ayatullah Sistani's risalah. Is that man considered the father of that child
and what responsibilities does he bear towards that child if any. Thank you
in advance for your time. Jazak Allah khair. wassalam ANSWER: Salaamun
'alaykum, Even in a temporary marriage, a man is responsible
for the upkeep of the children resulting from that marriage. He has to provide
provisions that he would provide for a child under a permanent marriage Liyakatali
Takim |  | Mut'a
- Rules and Regulations Question: What
are the conditions under which mutah can be practiced.. Briefly what are the
rules and regualtions behind it? Answer: Conditions
of mut'ah marriage are: i.e. the formula should be pronounced in correct Arabic,
the couple must have intention of insha i.e. recited in a creative sense thus
making it effective immediately,the couple reciting the mut'a or nikah should
be sane; baligh and complete willingness of both parties to enter into the
matrimony. If the bride agrees, the dowry can be given later on or she can
choose to forgive it completely. See Ayatullah Seestani's
Risala p. 437-438 Islamic Laws Iltimase du'a Liyakatali |
 | Mut'a
- Is it permissible with people of the book? Question: One
of my friend he has these questions for review. Is Muta'a
(Seeghaa) allowed with the people of book or not, especially the christians
of today. I know that the regular marriage is only permissible with a Muslim.
How about if the person is single and never married. And
if it is, I read a long time ago in a Tawzeeh that the sermon of Muta'a can
also be said in a language other than Arabic. Please answer these questions
under the authorities of both Seestaani and Khamenai. 2) For a man to
marry, is the permission of his parents a necessity according to the Shari'a
or not. A person who is living here in this society and wants to stay away
from the sins but his society(parents) does not allow him to marry, if he
marries without their permission is it going to be a disobedience and punishable
on the day of judgment or to save his A'qibat this disobedience and rebel
to one's society is allowed. Answer: 1.Yes,
temporary marriage can be contracted with Christian and Jewish women of today
- see Islamic Laws of Ayat Seestani, Masail 2406 If it
is not possible to recite the formula in 'Arabic, any other language may be
used but the words must convey the meaning of the marriage contract so there
is no doubt - see Islamic Laws - Masail 2379 2. The
permission of the parents is recommended but not necessary in the situation
you describe. Asgherali M M Jaffer |
 | Mut'a
- Is it required to talk to opposite sex on internet? QUESTIONS: Salaam
Alaikum, 1. In
order to discuss and talk with someone of the opposite sex on the internet,
is Mut'a required? A.l.
No, it is not required. 2. If
so, I understand from your previous reply that the nikah cannot merely be written
over the internet. But wouldn't it be possible for those interested in this
to talk over the phone and recite the appropriate words? Then they could talk
freely with one another on line. A.2:
Nikah has got to be uttered in words formulated by the
Shariah. If they are recited on phone, then it will be deemed proper. With
Salaams, Asgharali M.M. Jaffer |  | Mut'a
- over the Internet QUESTION: Salaam
Alikum, This is very interesting [being able to recite
the Nikah over the telephone]. I was wondering if the "couple" would
have to know each other or at least have seen each other before Mutah could
be recited over the telephone . ANSWER: Salamun
Alaikum, It will be presumed that the parties intending
to contract permanent or temporary marriage know each other, if not by face,
at least by other relevant details. Secondly, marriage, permanent or temporary,
is based on the consent of both the parties. This much of acquaintance is presumed. So,
when Muttah is contracted on phone, it is not necessary to have seen each other,
or known each other closely. Asgharali M.M. Jaffer |
 | Mut'a
with a Christian Women QUESTION: The
person who needs the answer is on taqleed of Sayed Khui (RA). A Muslim is considering
to marry a Christian woman on the basis of mut'a. She was married to another
man until five years ago, when they separated formally in the court. But because
some financial issues have not been settled after their separation, they never
concluded their formal (civil) divorce, according to the court. What
is the Islamic ruling for a new marriage (mut'a) of this Christian woman with
the Muslim man? Is she still considered married or divorced for this matter? ANSWER: If
the Christian lady has had her divorce solemnised according to SHARIAT, and
has completed her IDDAH, she can contract MUTA'H or a permanent marriage with
a Muslim. This is according to the rulings of Ayatullah Al-Khui, may ALlah
bless him. Asgherali M M Jaffer |  | Mut'a
with a Prostitute QUESTION: Assalamu'alaikum
wr.wb. May Muslim do mut'a with a prostitute? If he may,
what is the way? Your advice will be much appreciated. ANSWER: Salaamun
'alaykum, According to Ayatullah al-Khu'i, if a woman
is know to be an adulterer, then as an obligatory precaution, one must avoid
doing mut'a with her. Wasalaam, Liyakatali
Takim |  | Mut'a
with Ahlul Kitab QUESTION: I
have a question regarding Mutah with a non Muslim woman. While I know that Mutah
with women who are Ahlul Kitab is halal I am wondering just who Ahlul Kitab
are. In particular I want to know if Mutah is halal with a woman who believes
that Prophet Jesus (AS) is God or the son of God. Also the Catholics pray to
statues of Jesus and Mary, are they not then practicing shirk. Wouldn't his
make them haram for mutah? What about a Christian or Jewish woman whom we know
engages in fornication. ANSWER: Ahlul
Kitab are the people of the heavenly books, i.e. Torah and Ingeel. Christians
at the time of the Prophet also believed in Trinity. Yet they are classified
as the people of the Book. Mutah with a woman who engages
in formication should be avoided. Asgharali M M Jaffer |
 | Mut'a
- Iddah Question: According
to religious laws of Shia, a Muslim man can temporarily marry a Christian or
Jew woman (as well as a Muslim woman). As far as I understand a Muslim man
is not allowed to marry temporarily a woman having a religion except those
mentioned above. In practice, some problems occur that I could not find solutions
for them in the practical (Amalieh) Risalah. These problems are listed in the
following. Could you please answer these problems or questions according to
Ay. Sistani or Khamenei or Fazel-Lankarani? If finding answers according to
the above-mentioned persons is not possible at the present or it needs to be
asked them directly, could you answer them according to Shia's Feqh resources
like Sharh-Al-Lom'eh (by Shahid Al-Thani) or so on. Q.1.
In western countries the majority of people are Christians. However, there
are people who are not, in the meantime, Muslims or Jews. Is it allowed not
to ask her religion while Muta? In other words, is it allowed to presume that
she is Christian as the majority of people in society are Christians? Q.2.
When a Christian (or Jew) unmarried woman has lost her
virginity due to her previous relationships, is her father permission for marriage temporarily
(Muta) needed? Q.3. When
we find that she is single, Is it necessary to ask her that whether she has
a boyfriend at the present or not? If she does, is it allowed to marry her
temporarily? If she doesn't, is it necessary to ask her about previous relationships?
In other words, is it necessary to ask her that her EDEH (about 45 days in
Muta) is over? and also to tell her to keep EDEH after expiring the period
of Muta, while she does not believe to these rules or may not do as requested?
In summary, should we ask her about EDEH? and without asking in this regard,
can we do Muta? With many thanks. Answer: Q1.
In a country where the population is predominantly Christian,
you may presume that she is also Christian. Q2.
The father's permission is not required if she has had
previous relationships as described. Q3.
It is not necessary to ask but if she is currently in
a relationship you cannot marry her. It is not necessary to ask about previous
relationships or how long ago they took place. However, it is necessary to
explain to her the rules of Mut'a and explain about the Iddah to follow, even
if she does not later do as requested. And
Allah knows better. Asgharali M M Jaffer. |
 | Mut'a
- According to Qur'an and Sunnah QUESTION:
What is your idea about ESTEHBAABE-MOT'E? Have we got any HADITH 'bout that? ANSWER:
Bismihi-l-Haqq There
is unanimity amongst the Muslims that temporary marriage (mut'ah) was sanctioned
and approved by the Qur'an and the sunnah of the Prophet (S). The dispute on
this issue between the Shia and the Sunnis centres on whether or not this legislation
was abrogated by a subsequent Qur'anic verse and hadith-reports of the Prophet
(S). Our position (i.e. Shia), which can be documented with solid evidence,
is that no such abrogation took place in the lifetime of the Prophet. Recently,
an M.A. thesis on Mut'ah by Br. Riad Ahmad was submitted to the Department
of Islamic Studies at McGill University. It has gone for binding and cataloguing,
and should be available in a few months. The legislation
on temporary marriage (mut'ah) is commonly invoked to stigmatize the Shiah
and is equated to a form of legalized prostitution. Such a misconception is
due to the inability to position this institution within the larger social
context. Islamic social legislation is comprehensive and thus must address
all possible scenarios. Preservation of this practice was so important that
the Imams (a.s.) used to encourage their followers to contract mut'ah. The hadiths
that recommend mut'ah have to be understood in this context, i.e. it was meant
to revive (yuhyi) and maintain this institution. See for example the hadith
from Wasa'il-us-Shi'ah (Tehran, 1397 A.H. vol.14, p. 444) under the chapter
on Nikah and section on Desirability (Istihbaab) of Contracting Mut'ah: On
the authority of the 6th Imam (a) who is reported to have said that every man
who contracts mut'ah and then performs the ghusl, God creates from every drop
(of water) that drips from him seventy angels who seek his forgiveness till
the Day of Judgment . . . Another hadith says that He forgives sins when one perfoms
the ghusl equal to the number of hair. Other traditions that recommend mut'ah:
I love a man who does not leave this world until he contracts mut'ah even if
it is only once, and prays jum'ah in a congregation; once the sixth Imam (a.s.)
asked his companion Muhammad b. Muslim if he had ever performed mut'ah to which
he replied no. The Imam said that do not leave this world until you have revived
(tuhyi) the sunnah. You will notice that wherever the Imams strongly recommend
mut'ah, it is in the context of reviving the sunnah of the Prophet (S). This
becomes even clearer when we examine the hadith reports that discourage (karaahat)
mut'ah for those who already have access to their permanent wives. This is
the view of Professor Murtada Mutahhari and Ayatullah Fadlullah. The latter
believes that mut'ah can be prohibited if it is warranted for the preservation
of public interest. I should clarify, however, that
all present-day jurists allow men to enter into a mutah contract irrespective
of whether they are permanently married or not. Ayatullah Fadlullah puts a
limit of 4 wives, inclusive of permanent and temporay wives, whereas others
put no restriction on the number of temporary wives. It is prohibited to marry
a virgin in both temporary and permanent marriage without the consent of
her guardian (wali). It is also reprehensible (makruh) to engage in mut'ah
contract with a virgin. wa bi-l-laahi-t-tawfiq, Hamid
Mavani Sources: Sachiko Murata, Temporay Marriage (Mut'a)
in Islamic Law The Rights of Women in Islam Mohammad Sharif, Innocently
Accused: Fixed Term Marriage Al-Amili, Wasa'il-us-Shi'ah Al-Urwat-ul-Wuthqa
with commentaries by marjas Ayat. Fadlullah, Ta'ammulat-ul-Islamiyyah hawl-al-Mar'ah |
 | Mut'a
- Temporary Marriage QUESTION: SITUATION:
There is a friend of mine who studies with me and I recently found out that
he is a Shia. I saw him praying in our local Sunni mosque and he prayed like
me so I decided to ask him of his sect. We got to talking and after knowing
him for a couple of days now I found out that he lives with his girlfriend.
I talked to him about the concept of Mutaa that we Shia believed in. He seemed
to be very interested in this. I told him about the basic things that I know
about temporary marriage but soon I was confronted with a question that I was not
able to answer. His girlfriend is a virgin and thus needs her father's permission to
perform mutaa. She is also very interested in learning about Islam. Unfortunately,
her dad is a pastor at a local church, so he is not going to be practicle about
the concept of temporary marriage. The question that I was confronted with
was: QUESTION: What should be done if the guardian
of a girl (Ahl-el- kitaab) is very impracticle and does not want to do anything
with one of Allah's orders? I was not able to answer this question and
I would really appriciate it if you can answer this question for me. I'm sure
that Islam will have an answer to this. I would like this question to be answered
according to the rulings of both Aga Khui, and Aga Seestani. ANSWER:
In The Name of the Most High; 1.
The guardianship of one over another is not valid in
the following situations: a. If the father
is a kafir and the person is a muslim. b. If the person
is an adult(rashid) and their is an inclanation towards the one to be married.
(it is only a recommended precaution to get the guardains permission in this
case). c. If getting the guradian's permission is hard
to get for any logical reason. d. where the hardship
of achieving such permission is greater than the benefit of getting such permission. 2.
Not all Alims require that an adult bikr woman gets her
guardian's permission to enter into a muta marriage. Those who require such
conditions view it as an obligatory precaution. Therefore, and in those situations,
one can revert to another alim who allows it. 3.
In this particular situation, this girl does not have
to have her father's permission to enter into a muta marriage with this brother.
In fact the brother must perform such muta right away to avoid further falling
into haram acts. Allah knows best. Abu
Muhammad |  | Mut'a
- Banned by Umar ibn Khattab QUESTION: What
is the unforeseen act of `Amr b. Harith that occurred in the time of 'Umar
which caused him to ban Mut'ah as mentioned in Sayyid Sharafuddin's Masail
Fiqhiyyah? ANSWER: There
are very few details from the sources on this event. However, I have heard
that 'Amr had contracted mut'a with a Persian woman during the time of 'Umar.
'Amr also neglected his permanent wife and family responsibility due to his
mut'a relationship. This was one of the reasons which caused 'Umar to ban mut'a.
However, this is just one story I have heard, Allah knows the truth Yours
in Islam Liyakatali |  | Mut'a
- Iddah? QUESTION: If
a women ends a muta'h and has not had any ohysical relationship with her husband
for a period of 2 months before the agreed upon expiration of the muta', does
she still have to observe iddah? If a woman did not have
any physical relationship with her husband for a period of one month before
the expiration of their muta'h and she had menstruated, is her iddah still
2 cycles of menstruation or only one? ANSWER: IF
she has had physical relation even once during the period of muta'h, she has
to observe Iddah. She has to observe 2 cycles of menstruation after the expiry
of the term. This is according to Ayatullah Seestani. Asgherali
M M Jaffer |  | Mut'a
- Can a Shia perform Muta' with a Sunni Girl? QUESTION
1: Is it allowed to perfom Mut'a with a Sunni girl if
you explain the reasoning to it? ANSWER 1: Yes,
mut'a may be performed with a Sunni girl. QUESTION
2: If it is not possible that the girl can obtain permission
from her parents, is it still allowed? a) if she is virgin, b) if she is not
virgin? ANSWER 2: If she
is a virgin then permission of the father has to be sought. If she is not a
virgin, then no permission is required. QUESTION
3: What is the ruling concerning Muta with non-Muslims
i.e. Sikhs and Hindu if you explain to them the Muta? With practicing/non practicing
Christians and Jews? ANSWER 3: Mut'a
with women from people of the book (ahl al-kitab) is allowed. QUESTION
4: If you perform Muta are there any implications in
the next world? i.e. are you allowed the women of heaven ? ANSWER
4: If one follows the prescribed rules, then there will
not be any negative implications. With Salaams and
du'as L. Takim |  | Mut'a
and Fasts QUESTIONS: Q1:
Is it possible to make zawaj muta (muta marriage) over
the phone and the dowry given upon meeting, or must both the recitation of
the words and dowry be done simultaneously and in person? Q2:
What is the proper niyat for a wajib fast (Ramadan)
and a non-wajib fast? ANSWERS: Question
1: It is possible to perform a marriage over the phone
provided the normal conditions of marriage are fulfilled. i.e. the formula
should be pronounced in correct Arabic, the couple must have intention of insha i.e.
recited in a creative sense thus making it effective immediately, the couple
reciting the mut'a or nikah should be sane & baligh and complete willingness
of both parties to enter into the matrimony. If the
bride agrees, the dowry can be given later on or she can choose to forgive
it completely. See Ayatullah Seestani's Risala p. 437-438
Islamic Laws Question 2: The
proper niyya for a wajib fast is I am fasting for the month of Ramadhan wajib
qurbatan ilalaAllah. The niyya for a non-wajib (or mustahabb)
fast is I am keeping a fast qurbatan ilaAllah. Please note that one does not
have to utter the niyya, if one has the intention in the mind (that I am performing
the act for this purpose) that is sufficient to act as a niyya. In
fact, according to Ayatullah Seestani, it is sufficient for a person to decide
that in obedience to the command of Allah he will not perform, from the time
of the adhan of fajr prayers up to maghrib time any act which will invalidate
the fast. Jazaka Allah Liyakatali
Takim |  | Mut'a
- is Muta allowed for married women? QUESTIONS:
Is
Muta allowed for Married women also. If not why? Are
there any degrees in prophets(eg. Prophet Mohammad is greater than Moses). If
so you can please qote me from Quran, If not Hadis will do. ANSWERS: Salam
Alaikum brother; Muta is not allowed for married women
for the simple reason that Allah did not allow it for them. We can ponder many
reasons such as preservation of lineage, control of social morals, and phyiscal
fullfilment differences between men and women. Basically the same reasons why
men can marry more than one wife but women can not. As
far as the second question, the quran states clearly that "Tilka-aruslu fadalna
baadahum ala baad, warafanu baadahum fawqa badeen darajat" Those
are the messangers, we have excelled some over others in preference, and eleveated
some of them in degrees.. this is a rough translation
and I beleive the verse is in Surat Al-anbia. Abu Muhammad |
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- Permission of wife - is it necessary? QUESTION: I
follow the taqlid of Ayatullah Khui A friend and I have been discussing the
topic of MUTA. Although we both realize that it is allowed in Islam, there
is some dissagreement on its application. I contend that once a person has
entered a permanent marriage, muta is no longer allowed. My friend feels that
muta is still allowed as long as the permanent wife knows and does not dissapprove. ANSWER: Both
are wrong. Muta' has no restriction or condition on a man that he must be
single. That is true for the woman. Nor does it contain a condition of the
wife's approval. Muta' can be done wothout the permanent wife knowing. Mustafa
Jaffer |  | Mut'a
- Its sigha, is it okay to read in any other language? Question: is
it permissible to pronounce the sigheh of muta in a language other than arabic
ie english or french? Answer: The
sigha of mut'a can be pronounced in any language. But it should convey the
full meaning of the original. The woman to say: "I give away myself
in Mut'ah to you for a period of ............ and against the agreed mahr of
................" The man to say: "I accept you in mut'ah accordingly".
|  | Mut'a
- Is it allowed to contract without physical contact? QUESTION: My
friend told me that you answer questions relating to Islamic Law. Would you
mind answering the followiing questions regarding the temporary marriage (mut'a)? (1)
If 2 parties agree to certain conditions when contracting
the temporary marriage (such as no physical contact), is this agreement merely
a convenience or is it Islamically binding? If one party later violates this
agreement without consent, is this haraam? Is silence about the matter by the
other party considered consent, or must consent be explicit? (2)
Does a woman (Islamically) who is in a temporary marriage
have the right to refuse anything her husband sexually wants from her, or is
it haraam for her to refuse? Does the intent of the temporary marriage matter
(i.e. it was not contracted for the purpose of sexual pleasure); also, do agreements
such as the one mentioned above have any bearing on this question? ANSWER: 1.
Yes, that condition imposed by the wife will be
valid. However, if she agrees to physical contact etc., the husband is permitted
to have that contact. Silence, not under distress or threat is a form of compliance. 2.
It is haram for her to refuse. If there was a condition at the time of contracting
MUTAH, then the law explained above will prevail. Asgharali
M M Jaffer |  | Mut'a
- without Mahr QUESTION: Our
Mut'a was recited by Maulana, in the presence of the male and the girl's father.
There was no agreed mahr, so, Maulana told the man to decide it with girl later,
which he then did. The mut'a recitation stipulates an amount of mahr; my question
is was our mut'a in order. The contract has know completed, and if it wasn't
in order have we committed a sin, as we left in in the hands of someone more
educated then us. ANSWER: Muta'
without fixing Mahr is VOID and BATIL. However, you say that it was later fixed
- if it was fixed before consummation of marriage, then it is alright, otherwise
that MUTA (without fixed Mahr) was void. Asgharali M
M Jaffer |  | Mut'a
- Cultural stigmas Question: I
feel that there is a cultural stigma against a married man engaging in mutah.
People always envision a wife working hard at home to raise the kids while
the husband is out playing with his mutah. Now, if he is as fair as he can
be with regards to time, money, etc., spent with all of his wives, is there
any harm in a married man engaging in mutah for whatever reason, be it pleasure
or otherwise? Also, is there any harm in him having multiple mutahs, for pleasure
or otherwise, if he is still as fair as he can be with regards to time and money,
etc.? Or, is he wrong to engage in mutah if he is married in some cases? Also,
if a wife is jealous of her husband being involved with these mutahs which
are perhaps for his pleasure but he is trying to be fair in time, etc., is
she sinning in that jealousy? Answer: It
is important to note that it is very difficult if not impossible to be fair
and just to both wives in a polygamous marriage, whether it be permanent or
temporary. Some ulama have told me that in their opinion, a man who is happily
married with children should not perform the mut'a for fun especially as this
will probably affect his married life, it will create tension in his marriage
and could possibly lead to a divorce. As for having multiple
mut'ahs, apart from the fact that it is impossible to be just to all parties
in such circumstances, there is a real possibility of cathing or spreading
diseases especially in modern times. Why should a dedicated wife who is bringing
up her children be exposed to such treatment? Indeed, it is but natural for
a woman to feel jealous and aggrieved under such circuimstances. May
Allah guide us all, Amin. Liyakatali |
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Hadith QUESTION: Salam
Alaikum. It shall be much appreciated if you may kindly
throw some light on the subject of Mutawatir Hadith as to what is the definition
and what is the root word in Arabic for this and if a certain Hadith is Mutawatir
, does it also mean that it is more strong and more accepted. Thank
you. Was-salam.
ANSWER: Salaamun
'alaykum, In his Awa'il Maqalat, Shaykh al-Mufid defines
mutawattir traditions as "transmission by such a number of transmitters
that they could not have agreed to fabricate such a tradition without the fact
of it's fabrication becoming known". Moreover,
not only have such traditions been narrated by many transmitters, they have
also been successively transmitted without any break in the isnad (chain of
transmission). For example, the event of Ghadir where
the Prophet (SAW) explicitly appointed Imam Ali (AS) to be his successor is
a mutawwatir tradition. Mutawwatir traditions are much
more reliable than the ahad (singular) traditions which are reported by just
one transmitter. Most of the ahadith are of the latter genre. Fi
amanillah Liyakatali Takim |  | Mutual
Fund Investment QUESTION: Please
reply this as per ruling of Seestani. Many people invest
in Mutual Funds. Many mutual funds company invests in many other companies
by buying shares of those companies. If I buy some units on Mutual funds I
become a part owner of all those companies whose shares are bought by the Mutual
Fund Company. If a Mutual Fund Company buys millions of shares of which some
shares are of breweries and Casinos and Meat Companies.They issue prospectus
showing their holdings in different companies. Can I buy units or shares of
these Mutual Funds which has some shares of breweries and Casinos and other
haram things? The income that I derive through this Mutual Fund company includes income
from breweries and Casinos as well. ANSWER: It
is not allowed to transact any business that involves alcohol or gambling.
(See Ayatullah Seestani's Islamic Laws pg 373 "Haraam Transactions").
Asgharali M.M. Jaffer |  | Meaning
of PAK QUESTION: As-salam
`alaykum, In your archives I have noticed he term "PAK",
and I think it is equivalent to halaal, but I am not sure. Could you explain
this term for me, and indicate its language of origin? ANSWER: PAK
is a Persian, Urdu, Gujarati word used for TAHIR, not Halal. Instead of using
the expressions like "clean" or "virtually clean", we chose
to use the word PAK. Asgharali M.M. Jaffer |
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Alcohol Question: Assalamu
alaykum I am wondering about whether it is haram to ingest
small quantities of alcohol found in different remedies for illness. In particular
I am thinking of two different substances: The first is a drink called kombucha which
is the fermented result of tea and sugar, which contains about .5% - 1% alcohol
(the same as a "non-alcoholic" beer), and is drunk by some people
as a tonic, liver cleanser, cure-all etc. The second is the homeopathic remedies
that can contain about 20% alcohol, of which the person ingests only a few
drops a day, to cure various ills, depending on what the medicine is. Please
base the answer on Ayat. Khameini's rulings. Response: I
could not find the exact Massa'la in the selection of the replies provided
by Ayt. Khamenei to some questions asked of him. You may want to forward your
exact question to his office. But I found the following on page 93 of the mentioned
text which seems to me to be relevant to what is asked. Q.321
I make Spray Etheropin Sulphate and Alcohol is one of
the main component of its medical formula, in other words without adding the solution
of alcohol it is not possible to make the spry. As far as the (medical) application
of the spry is concerned you may want to know that it is a weapon to save the
Islamic Army against the nerve gas. According to you ruling, is it lawful to
use alcohol in the production of the medicine as described above? A.
If the Alcohol is intoxicating (Musker) and fluid in
its original form, it is Najes and Haram, but its usage in medicine in some
cases has no problem (no Ishkal). Please be
advised that according to Ayt. Khamenei for alcohol to be haram and najes: 1-one
must be CERTAIN that 2- it is MUSKER 3- the original form of the substance
be LIQUID. with regards, Mohammad |
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Alcohol (2) Question: Could
you please clarify for me about what constitutes "musker/intoxicating":
I heard once that if the alcohol is intoxicating in large quantities than
even the small quantity or it is haram, even if one doesn't feel any intoxicating
effects. Is this true or not? Answer: In
question # 317 where someone asks whether a small percentage of %5 or %8 Alcohol
in food products has any problem, given the fact that that small percentage
of Alcohol is dissolved in the food and does not cause intoxication, Ayt. Khamenei
replies that: " If the Alcohol present in the product
is in itself (fi Nafsehe) intoxicating (Musker), then it is najes and haram,
even though it might not be intoxicating (Musker) [in a given case] due to
its small quantity in the solution and its mixture with the product. But if
there is a doubt as to whether it is in itself, or it is liquid in its original
form or not the rule is different." As we notice in the above answer
one of the criteria given for Alcohol to be najes and haram is being intoxicating
(Musker) IN ITSELF (fi Nafsehe). This means it has the potential of intoxicating
an individual- not a particular individual with certain amount of consumption.
But rather the mere fact that it can intoxicate human beings under some conditions
it is enough for it to be considered haram and najes even when those conditions
are not met and it does not have intoxicating effects in that case. Regards, Mohammed |
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